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Sometimes you have to leave, not for ego, but for self-respect.

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You don’t need closure from those who have caused you pain. 
          
          Your gentle heart and pure intentions are enough to heal you. 
          
          Their absence speaks volumes; their ghosting is a reminder of your strength. 
          
          Their gaslighting reveals their true nature, while their silence shows you the importance of self-respect. 
          
          Their betrayal and disrespect serve as lessons, guiding you toward a brighter future. 
          
          Embrace your own closure; it’s found in your resilience and self-worth.

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The bittersweet reality of moving on after cutting contact with someone. It acknowledges the lingering thoughts and emotions—still thinking about the person, still missing them—but also the conscious choice to no longer check in or let them disrupt your peace.
          
          Healing after no contact isn’t about forgetting; it’s about reclaiming your emotional space and prioritizing your well-being. It’s okay to miss someone and still choose to keep your distance. In time, the memories will fade, and what remains will be the strength you built from letting go.

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Wala na akong pakialam!
          
          Alam mo habang tumatanda ako, mas nagiging malinaw na sakin kung sino lang talaga yung worth it paglaanan ng oras at energy. Kung hindi nakakatulong sa mental health, finances, o peace of mind, bakit ko pa papayagang manatili?  
          
          Wala na ‘kong guilt sa pag-cut off, kahit gaano pa kahaba o kalalim ang pinagsamahan. Hindi naman kasi lahat meant to stay, at hindi rin obligasyon na tiisin ang mga hindi na healthy sa buhay natin.  
          
          Maging mabait, oo. Matulungin, pwede. Pero wag magpaubuso.  
          
          Some people are just passing through—at ayos lang ‘yon.

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When someone is no longer part of your life, there's no need to speak poorly of them. Even the connection didn't meet your expectations, it's serve it's purpose by showing you what isn't meant for you.
          
          Shift your perspective, realize that their presence was a chapter, not the whole story. Let them go with grace, because once you recognize your own worth and the energy you bring, their absence we're feel like growth, not loss.

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1. Did someone betray you?
          Stay silent.
          
          2. Is someone causing you pain?
          Stay silent.
          
          3. Did someone fail to give you what you deserved, despite all your love?
          Stay silent.
          
          4. Did someone insult you greatly?
          Stay silent.
          
          5. Did someone deceive you?
          Stay silent.
          
          6. Is someone falsely accusing you?
          Stay silent.
          
          Become so silent that those people never hear your voice or see your shadow again. Become invisible to them.
          Make a promise to yourself that you will never look back. If you keep this promise, you won’t feel pain. This silence may choke you with unspoken cries, but it will leave the other person with regret.
          
          The truth is, we protest with words because we fear losing.
          But do you know something?
          The ones who never valued you as a person, the ones who made you feel suffocated with grief—they were never truly yours.
          
          So, live for yourself, love yourself.
          You have a Creator.
          Tell Him all your sorrows, pains, desires, and hopes. He will take care of everything.