ChelsieLovesTom
Hey everyone I wanna update about where I been I have been slacking in updating one of my fanfics I had no motivation so I’ll update when I’m motivated but I also have some other important things coming like I am getting surgery to get my tubes tied (no I don’t have kids) bc for awhile now I don’t want children it’s bc of my disability I can’t take care of them 24/7 and I don’t wanna be overwhelmed by them and I don’t feel comfortable having a child so the solution was to get my tubes tied and I am so thankful my mom is supportive of me on that decision and I have a boyfriend who supports me we talked about it we both on the same page about having no kids but I am gonna wait till the 30 days pass so I can say yes and be scheduled and ready I am happy but also nervous bc it’s my very first surgery I pray to God that I be brave and I wanna show that it’s okay to not want kids and have a positive child free life and before anyone comes at me I’m not saying having kids is bad anyway shape or form I love kids just not for me so I think it’s important if it’s what they want so I happen everyone is having a good October I’ll update you guys later love y’all.