Please always make sure that the relationships in your life are two sided. It doesn't matter if we're talking about romantic relationships or just friendships. If you are there for the other person when they need it, but they are not there for you, then you don't want that person in your life as much as it hurts. Not because you need that person, maybe you think that it doesn't matter because you have someone else to be there for you or maybe you are used to deal with things on your own. But having someone in your life that is not there for you when they know that you're not okay just means that they don't care, maybe they are around because they like having someone for them when they need it. Or maybe they like the way you make them feel. But if they don't have at least the intention of giving some of that back to you, it's because they really don't care about you, sorry if it's harsh or it hurts. But please don't let yourself be damaged by people who is not worthy, and no one is worthy of you being in pain because of them.
Damn this was angsty.