CreatorCat

When a fellow girl is either in a relationship with or obviously interested in a boy at my workplace, especially if I have to work in similar positions to him or interact with him a lot, I don't know how exactly to act. I'll still be polite to the boys, and I'll do what I have to do to get the job done, but I get so anxious whenever I have to interact with them when the other girl is around, working with us as well either in either the same or somewhat different position. 
          	
          	I don't know if they get jealous easily or even if there are certain boundaries in place. I don't know any of that. I'm not a kind reader and I'm not about to start nosing around in other people's business. 
          	
          	Idk. I am personally uncomfortable with workplace romances up to a certain degree, simply because I find that I get so anxious having to interact with the boys when their partner is around. I don't want to be *that girl* who is really nice to *their boyfriend* who, coincidentally, seems to think highly of her.
          	
          	Any thoughts on what I should do to remedy these feelings of anxiousness?

dockat12

@CreatorCat If you don’t have any romantic attraction to the boy then just treat him normally, like a co-worker or friend! No reason for any drama. To be perfectly frank, if she gets jealous when you are treating him as a friend, that’s her problem. Don’t ghost him, that would just be mean. And don’t avoid him when you need his help with work. Interact as you need to. Easy peasy! I assume. I’m speaking from a kid’s perspective, so… I tried my best. Hope it helped!
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CreatorCat

When a fellow girl is either in a relationship with or obviously interested in a boy at my workplace, especially if I have to work in similar positions to him or interact with him a lot, I don't know how exactly to act. I'll still be polite to the boys, and I'll do what I have to do to get the job done, but I get so anxious whenever I have to interact with them when the other girl is around, working with us as well either in either the same or somewhat different position. 
          
          I don't know if they get jealous easily or even if there are certain boundaries in place. I don't know any of that. I'm not a kind reader and I'm not about to start nosing around in other people's business. 
          
          Idk. I am personally uncomfortable with workplace romances up to a certain degree, simply because I find that I get so anxious having to interact with the boys when their partner is around. I don't want to be *that girl* who is really nice to *their boyfriend* who, coincidentally, seems to think highly of her.
          
          Any thoughts on what I should do to remedy these feelings of anxiousness?

dockat12

@CreatorCat If you don’t have any romantic attraction to the boy then just treat him normally, like a co-worker or friend! No reason for any drama. To be perfectly frank, if she gets jealous when you are treating him as a friend, that’s her problem. Don’t ghost him, that would just be mean. And don’t avoid him when you need his help with work. Interact as you need to. Easy peasy! I assume. I’m speaking from a kid’s perspective, so… I tried my best. Hope it helped!
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CreatorCat

On my way to my high school graduation!!!

CreatorCat

Heading to Senior Prom soon!

CreatorCat

@Evertoneddd I'm a single pringle and going alone (the prom I'm going to doesn't require dates but a lot of my friends are going with dates). If it comes down to it, then the closest thing to my date is my little brother who is a sophomore in High School :)
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Evertoneddd

HEHE WHO ARE YOU GOING WITH
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CreatorCat

I found my prom dress today. A strapless royal blue gown with white accents. I put it on, looked in the mirror, and saw a princess staring back at me. Her eyes were shining and a wide smile grew on her face, revealing that she truely felt beautiful. 
          
          I knew from that moment, when I got to my highschool senior prom later this year, I will actually be able to believe the words "You look so pretty" without a doubt in my mind.

CreatorCat

I love my ability to write my ideas for book chapters. I hate the fact that they aren't the chapters I should be working on.

CreatorCat

@Sallysmalltwin Yeah.. I know what times I'm really able to work on them, but the issue is that I'm still in school,  I'm currently working on ways to earn money for major events coming up next month and in May, and I also have some one shots I need to make for people all while trying not to piss my mom off by being on an electronic all day. All the fun stuff XD
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GilyAlcamate

@CreatorCat Make sure you pace yourself and set dates or times where you can work on your stories
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CreatorCat

Just broke up with my first boyfriend.. it was a healthy relationship too.. I feel like an awful person now..

Deadlywolf131822

You’re welcome  
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CreatorCat

@Day7802 yeah, I'm planning on not dating for a while. Thank you for your kind words :)
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Deadlywolf131822

I am sorry that happened but it’s going to be ok everyone make mistakes but we can learn from them and become a bigger and better person you should take some time off if you want
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CreatorCat

Currently feeling like crap. My period started two days ago, I've had a really stuffy nose/mucus in my throat since the day before Christmas if not slightly earlier, and last night my nose started heavily bleeding out of nowhere from both nostrils. I am also very tired. I don't know why today just feels like it does but I am not having a good day right now :(