@nimmo77 i get that too! I've been there too and it's an awful feeling really, did she tell why she's leaving the fandom btw, she was so in love with both of them and getting to know that she's left and now seeing her gone saddens me, she was so passionate about her love for both of them, it's sad to see people really believe the rumours and negativity and leave. But then again, it's their choice so we can't really do anything!