Basically, just think about what you're saying and how it sounds and what it may mean contrary to what you believe it to be. Be respectful, not just to me - but to any writer cuz some of them probably won't voice some of their frustrations from the simple fact of coming off as unlikable- especially when first starting out. And keep in mind that all of us are different in our writing styles, what we tolerate, what we like, what we imagine love is, etc. - you're not going to make me into someone I don't care to be just because you think I should be.
Anyway, best wishes to all of you. Hope you're staying warm/cool wherever you are. Eternally grateful to y'all, even if you may read me as otherwise.