Temposexual means you don’t feel attraction all the time, and it’s not about someone’s gender. Instead, it’s about the right moment. You might feel drawn to someone only late at night, during a deep conversation, or when they’re in a certain mood. Sometimes, someone can be around for months and nothing clicks, and then suddenly, one tiny moment makes your heart race.
It’s kind of like your feelings have a schedule of their own. You can’t force it, but when it happens, it happens (I just invented this sexuality no I did not use ai, please stop accusing me on a03 I ended up deleting my account.)