As fans, we need to remember that we don't know everything about our idols' personal lives. We should not jump to conclusions and make assumptions about them based on things we see in the media. Our idols are human, and like anyone else, they make mistakes. It's not our place to judge them or dictate how they should act. Let's focus on supporting and loving them for who they are rather than trying to control them or interfere in their relationships. At the end of the day, we're just fans, and the most important thing is their happiness and well-being, not our own desires.