@leighjona8 people who haven’t taken a hard line stand already understand your messaging. Those that have won’t be able to see beyond the cheating. It’s a sticking point, I get it. It’s the ultimate betrayal. In their eyes, he doesn’t deserve grace or forgiveness. So, yea, I usually try to stay out of the fray. But this story has pulled me in and I’ve found myself needing to defend and explain. I was also irked by some of the comments about Cam - needy, wimp, can’t handle a strong woman. Because he wanted to emotionally connect with Sloane…I thought we wanted men to be more emotionally available?
Please no to adding more Evie/cam scenes. I couldn’t stomach the one we got. I can’t even read that chapter again without wanting to puke. I think it actually makes sense he’d break it off quickly. I think he was living in a cloud of hurt and justified the cheating by convincing himself Sloane didn’t love him and wouldn’t care. When he realized that she did care and he was the reason she was now hurting, it was a reality check. The moment he realized his mistake and chose not to compound it?
Thank you for answering my questions. Why he didn’t just initiate divorce before cheating is a question that bothered me as well. Aside from the obvious reason that he’s an ahole, I think it would have been hard for him to just simply walk away. And divorce talk leaves the door open to working things out and the cycle starting over again. Women who have been cheated on always have that one that moment when they (unfairly) think “what did I do wrong?”. But I think, in this case, Sloane needed to have the self reflection, to really think about the what’s and why’s of her words and actions. She used Cam to keep the demons away, now she’ll have to finally face them. Cheating can never be justified but here I think it serves a purpose and propels Sloane toward healing.