Guys, I need some advice-
My very best friend is having a hard time right now- They have recently moved countries and They really didn't want to- Their family have been in this new country for a couple of months now and They have started attending a school there... They hate it, haven't told me the *exact* reasons but They never want to go back again. And it was only the first day too.
We were talking last night and They were coming up with a plan about running away for a bit, to 'convince' Their mum & dad (mainly mum) not to let Them go back to the school... They have said some concerning stuff (things that have really got me worried).
They are really having a really rough time right now... I want Them to feel better and not useless, or think they are dumb and be negative towards Themself, but I've never had anyone think/speak like this before and I don't know what to do.. I'm really really really worried for Them and just want Them to feel loved and supported enough to stay home... I don't want to upset Them any more by making myself seem like I don't care about Them or anything close to that...
I do not agree with Their plans but I've always helped Them out with everything else whatever the situation was- I don't want to do it now but I don't know how to say it without sounding rude or mean or something that makes me seem like I don't like The at all.. it sucks seeing them deteriorate but then seem so much better and then get worse again...
Should I just wait a little bit more and see how They are feeling and handling it while comforting Them at the same time? Or should I say something when They talk about anything like that again??
I just really want Them to be happy again ❤
Please give me any advice about this kind of situation that you can, I would really appreciate it... ❤