The secret of getting ahead is getting started; you won't win or be ahead of others if all you'll do will watch life happen, you must start moving forwards in life before you will be ahead of others. If people are doubting how far you can go, go so far that you can’t hear them anymore no matter how hard it is at times, no matter how hard it is to keep courage and hope at times. We need to accept that we won’t always make the right decisions, that we’ll screw up royally sometimes – understanding that failure is not the opposite of success, it’s part of success; you learn from your mistakes and you'll know what not to do anymore. When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us; look for that door before it closes and makes another one open and don't look at the closed one. Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions; you must make your happiness because rarely people will give it to you. The hard days are what make you stronger, if you make it thru those times you'll be stronger later in life. You’re only here for a short visit, don’t hurry, don’t worry and be sure to smell the flowers along the way. All of life is peaks and valleys. Don’t let the peaks get too high and the valleys too low. You got this far in life, you can get even further, keep going but not too fast. Don't give up because it's a tough day, the more tough days you'll go thru, the more tougher you'll get. It'll all make sense one day, all the pain, tears and sweat, it'll all be worth it.
