Whenever I (sometimes jokingly) complain to one of my best friends about something they'll always say "It's okay!"
And yeah it can put me to rest but the thing thing is, THEY ALWAYS SAY THAT.
"It's okay!"
"IT'S OKAY, IT'S OKAY!"
"*insert continuation to joke that I made*"
"It's okay..!"
NO IT'S NOT, STOP SAYING THAT.
I love them to death, and they're like a sibling to me but the fact they keep repeating some things over and over, or responding to my long ass texts too quickly/early, and keep saying that damn phrase.. it makes me feel like they didn't actually take the time to understand. As if they don't actually care..
They're an awesome person and maybe it's just my anxious thoughts talking, but I'd love it if it they didn't seem like helping to take care of my troubles were a chore and have more flowing responses.