Something I hate the most is when people call mlm or wlw ships " yaoi " or " yuri " .
The thing is the term yaoi and yuri is used for anime p o r n o, so don ' t call it that or else you ' re basically fetishizing it like- that ' s just gross :/
As a transmasculine who has an attraction to men, I find it HEAVILY uncomfortable when people call mlm ships yaoi, you ' re basically a fujoshi, just call it- I don ' t know an " mlm ship " since it ' s much more comfortable, rather than being treated as if gay couples are a kink or something.