okay i have a dilemma and i need your guys's advice! homecoming for my school is coming up, and i want to go because it's not going to be held in the gym for once and might actually be friend. my entire friend group split up over the summer, so although i could go with one of my close friends, it wouldn't be the experience that i want and i know i wouldn't end up having friends. so, my two other options are:
1. ask out this really amazing person i'm friends with !! only issue is that i appear totally straight girl and they don't know my sexuality, and they are literally a mirror image of my ex it's kinda embarrassing. also, i don't think they'd be very vibey at the dance, but it would be fun just to be with them
2. ask this girl i went to sleepaway camp to go w me! we talked about going to each others' dances during camp, and although i didn't go to her hoco, we had a dance at camp tg and she is such a vibey person and i would have a great time with her there. but she's been super flakey when we've been trying to make plans to hang since camp, and we had like a kinda camp thing (heavily suggested but nothing happened) and neither of us has mentioned it since.
please help guys