Fan-doom

Hey love, thanks for following. Usually I would ask people to check out my work, but instead of doing that I'm going to ask for you to stop hurting yourself. 
          
          I know what it's like to be in your position, so I'm not going to say the same things that everybody says (because I know how annoying they are and how they just make you feel worse) but I will just give you 2 pieces of advice that I find work for me (and I know everybody is different, but there's a chance that maybe one of them might work for you as well). 
          
          1. You don't have to stop, but you have to replace. If ever you feel like cutting or anything similar, do something else instead. Watch a video, put on some music to dance, draw, do your makeup,  sing, try a new hairdo. Just find something else to do (with your hands works best) that will distract you. Even if you just take a pen and draw sharp lines across a page instead of your body. Anything to replace. Stopping a bad habit is hard (I know that), so don't think of it as stop, think of it as replace, and you will find it easier to reduce how often it occurs. 
          
          2. There is always a next. YES, right now might suck. And YES, right now is hard; but think of all the good things that might happen NEXT. Dream big and focus on the future. Because something will always come next, and you'll always have something to look forward to. 
          
          You can chose to listen to me, or you can chose not to. It's completely up to you. But whatever you decide, make sure that it's the best option for YOU. Because if you don't help yourself no one will. Nobody can do anything to you but yourself. And while that can be a bad thing sometimes, it can be positive others. 
          
          Try not to worry about all the distractions life never fails to provide, and start worrying about YOU and how you can help yourself. And if you ever need a little backup, I'm right here to listen. 
          
           - Belle xx 

notsuju

so I saw you followed me and I don't normally do this, actually I never do this, I'm not gonna sit here and write about how beautiful you are and that you shouldn't cut because you're beautiful and yadda yadda, you shouldn't cut because you shouldn't and that's it, you got a body for a reason and it's not to hurt it in such a horrible way, you should get professional help if you can to stop you from doing this and from being in such a state, if you really wanna get better that's what you gotta do, it is up to you to stop, and it is up to you to get help, I don't know you from anywhere, but there are probably people who worry about you and your health, and I'm not gonna say I'll be here for you bc I rarely come here, but there are obviously people here who want to help you. But just remember, you'll only get help if you ask for it, and you'll only get better if you actually do something about it, talk to someone and stop destroying your body

notsuju

@alltimemike and if you're a cutter and you're not proud of it the only person who can change that is you, don't do something you're not proud of
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vitaone

beautiful, thank you for the follow! If you need help just pm me okay? I'll be there to talk to you and you shouldn't cut.. you're beautiful and if no one has ever told you this today I love you and you are beautiful and you are worth it (-:

Dracogirl153

Thank you for believing in me I hope I can stop it not very simple
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