Elite_Author3182012
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ADVICE. 🌷
Every piece of advice has a meaning. Some advice is genuinely meant for our own good, while some can be given in a way that makes us feel small.
But remember one thing: advice doesn’t need an audience.
If you want to correct someone, do it privately. Don’t embarrass them in front of others. Being scolded or corrected in front of guests can make someone feel humiliated, hurt, or even more stubborn. Sometimes, one embarrassing moment can stay in someone’s mind for an entire week. :(
Talk to them alone. Calmly. Respectfully. Let them understand instead of making them feel attacked. And if you’re giving advice, don’t yell, don’t scream, and don’t let anger speak for you. A harsh voice doesn’t make advice stronger—it can make someone stop listening.
And yes, giving sincere advice for someone’s good is a beautiful thing. But kindness matters too. 🌱
Even when parents say, “I was only advising you for your own good,” if it was done through shouting or humiliation, the person may remember the embarrassment more than the advice itself.
So please—correct people without crushing them. Guide them without humiliating them.
> *“The best advice is not the advice that makes someone feel small; it’s the advice that helps them become better without breaking their heart.”* 🤍
Be kind. Be patient. Be respectful.
Give advice privately.
Give it calmly.
And never embarrass someone just to make your point.
— 𝑴𝒔.𝒌𝒎 🪽
Kang_Hae-rim
@Elite_Author3182012 You're absolutely right! <3 But if you ever need advice, you know where to come. ^^
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Kang_Hae-rim
Happy 656 followers bby! ^^
Elite_Author3182012
ADVICE. 🌷
Every piece of advice has a meaning. Some advice is genuinely meant for our own good, while some can be given in a way that makes us feel small.
But remember one thing: advice doesn’t need an audience.
If you want to correct someone, do it privately. Don’t embarrass them in front of others. Being scolded or corrected in front of guests can make someone feel humiliated, hurt, or even more stubborn. Sometimes, one embarrassing moment can stay in someone’s mind for an entire week. :(
Talk to them alone. Calmly. Respectfully. Let them understand instead of making them feel attacked. And if you’re giving advice, don’t yell, don’t scream, and don’t let anger speak for you. A harsh voice doesn’t make advice stronger—it can make someone stop listening.
And yes, giving sincere advice for someone’s good is a beautiful thing. But kindness matters too. 🌱
Even when parents say, “I was only advising you for your own good,” if it was done through shouting or humiliation, the person may remember the embarrassment more than the advice itself.
So please—correct people without crushing them. Guide them without humiliating them.
> *“The best advice is not the advice that makes someone feel small; it’s the advice that helps them become better without breaking their heart.”* 🤍
Be kind. Be patient. Be respectful.
Give advice privately.
Give it calmly.
And never embarrass someone just to make your point.
— 𝑴𝒔.𝒌𝒎 🪽
Kang_Hae-rim
@Elite_Author3182012 You're absolutely right! <3 But if you ever need advice, you know where to come. ^^
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Elite_Author3182012
OKAY PEOPLE—GATHER AROUND. 😭📢
So basically… I am a CRAZY, ABSOLUTELY UNHINGED lover of my cast “Pathan.” 😭💗 Like, respectfully, that cast owns my entire heart, soul, WiFi, and probably my future inheritance. 💀
And for the longest time, Wattpad people have called me Eli, Ms.km, km—and GIRL, I have approximately 847 other names too. 😭
Elity. Zahra. Kween. Queen. Angel. Princess. And probably three more I’ve forgotten because apparently having ONE name was never enough for me. 😭🎀
BUT THEN…
I FOUND SOMEONE WHO CALLS ME “MY PATHANI.”
HAYEEEEEEEEEEEEEE 😭😭😭💞💞💞
DO YOU UNDERSTAND THE LEVEL OF HAPPINESS THIS BRINGS ME???
I READ “MY PATHANI” AND MY BRAIN JUST—
💥✨ SYSTEM SHUTDOWN ✨💥
Suddenly I’m smiling at my screen, giggling like an idiot, kicking my feet, staring at the wall like I’m the main character in a Wattpad story. 😭🫠💗
That name has officially stolen my heart. NO REFUNDS. NO EXCHANGES. CASE CLOSED. 😭🔨
I LOVE YOU, MY LOVELYYYYY. 💞🫶🏻
— Ms.km 🎀
Elite_Author3182012
“People can go from people you know to people you don’t.”
It’s just a song lyric, guys… but it tells SO much about reality.
People can go from people you know to people you don’t. Read it twice, buddy… and if you understand it in one second, you’re my buddy. 😭
This lyric just shows how much a person could change.
From flawless to spotless.
From angel to devil.
From ant to elephant.
From coward to brave.
People can change, but it’s not easy, especially when we Gen Z begin to change. Just know it’s not something small.
A personality change, an attitude change, even a change in yourself — every change needs time and effort that some people won’t see.
But some changes are good. Changing to be brave, changing to put effort into yourself, changing to value those who matter. 🤍
And then there are other kinds of changes… like when your best friend suddenly comes to you and says she thinks your friendship isn’t working.
Bro… sometimes it’s not the friendship that isn’t working. It’s the misunderstanding between you two. 😭
People usually change because of misunderstandings. Couples disagree because of one small misunderstanding, friends hear you whisper something near someone they don’t like and suddenly think you’re talking about them…
So before doing anything, confirm it. Sit calmly, talk face to face, and clear the whole mess.
If you want to keep the relationship — friendship, love, whatever it is — work on it. If not, just let it end.
But never change yourself because someone else changed.
Don’t change your personality because of people you dislike. Change when you feel YOU should change.
Because changing for yourself is growth. Changing just because of others… is losing yourself.
— 𝑴𝒔.𝒌𝒎 ♡
Elite_Author3182012
@happy_little_crystal my thoughts arent deep ! I am just mature more than I should portably be ! Dont wish to be like me … you don’t know who I have those deep thoughts !.. Stay happy and don’t compare yourself to anyone ! None even yourself ! Cause you are rare and one no one else is like you .. 💞
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Elite_Author3182012
Happy 652 followers wild roses !
Elite_Author3182012
@aaliyaxwriter awww thanks my love ,may you achive even more than me ! ♥️ 💞
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Elite_Author3182012
The world is very, very masked. 🎭
So many secrets are hidden, and some are buried so deeply that no one ever finds them.
People wear different masks for different people.
But why do we pretend to be kind, well-behaved, and perfect when that isn’t who we truly are?
Be who you are.
Don’t change yourself because of this world.
If you’re flawed, you’re flawed.
If you’re kind, you’re kind.
What matters isn’t how people see you — it’s who you are when nobody is watching.
Stop pretending to be strong when you aren’t.
Stop giving effort to people who wouldn’t give you the same.
Stop exhausting yourself trying to be enough for someone who never tried to understand you.
Reality can be harsh.
The world can be cruel.
So be your own first priority.
Give yourself the love you’ve been waiting for from everyone else. Because if you don’t choose yourself, you can’t keep expecting someone else to do it for you.
A shadow will always remain a shadow.
And not everyone will stay until the very end.
People disappear.
People change.
Time moves on.
So while you’re here… be yourself. Love yourself. Choose yourself. 🌙
And remember:
BE YOURSELF. ALWAYS. 🕊️
Now, let me ask you a few questions…
♡ When was the last time you did what your heart truly wanted?
♡ When was the last time you lay down and simply cried — not because of friends, not because of anyone else, but because you were mentally exhausted?
♡ When was the last time you did something that made you genuinely smile?
♡ When was the last time you said “no” to someone without feeling guilty?
♡ When was the last time you felt truly loved… by yourself?
Be genuine.
Be honest with me.
And most importantly…
Be honest with yourself. 🤍
With a little reminder from someone who believes you deserve to choose yourself too…
— 𝓜𝓼.𝓴𝓶 🌙🕊️
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Elite_Author3182012
@Flashy7703 thanksss , same to you ! Know that Eli is here always and forvevr ! 💞
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Flashy7703
@Elite_Author3182012 Anytime buddy ♥️ Just know that there is a family here ready to comfort you 😊
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