Elli-Dawn
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So my father finally responded to my mum's lawyer and now says he wants proceeding to be halted for a further few months. Seperation was only 10-11 months ago and says he needs more time. He probably still thinks he can come back when my Mum wants to divorce him.
And he basically said us kids wanting to commit suicide was not a justifiable reason for him to proceed now and unless he can be presented with a good enough reason he doesn't want to continue. Yep... His kids could die and that isn't good enough for him. Really shows what kind of person he is.
He also says we can have the house and won't contest it but fails to realize doing a consent form is a split of ALL property, not just house. His superannuation is included too. But he thinks just giving us the house, with the 320k debt, is good enough while he still walks away with more money than he should have in his name. But he is too stupid to realize how this all works. He came out with so many lies, and contradicted himself and went around in circles in his reply to the lawyer. Seriously what a moron. My mum is going to be talking with her lawyer tomorrow about how to proceed, but we are not waiting. Freaking no. We have waited long enough. He already told us to wait 6 months in August last year, we are not going to continue waiting now. I just want this OVER I can't take it much longer and am tired of him treating us kids as unimportant and nonexistent.
MariaStapleton
@elli-Dawn Never give up hope. As long as there is a shimmer of hope, reach out and grab it. I agree with @SexyKenu
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SexyKenu
@Elli-Dawn Hang in there. It's almost over. The sun will shine soon and you'll all move forward to better healthier lives. Don't give up dear. There are people who care.
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BrOwInEbOi148
Hello! I was wondering if you still do stories
AnimeLoverUnicornz
Hiyoo it’s been a while since I’ve been back on Wattpad haha & I was wondering how you’re doing? Hope everything is ok as of right now/ just wanted to remind you how much I enjoy reading yr fanfics! ^_^
bloumis
Hi Elli-Dawn. I read your wonderful post about Kbtbb where MC dies and the bidders can't move on...can I please request for you that the bidders meet MC's reincarnation and if you played it is a cop?
DreamyKawaii
Please add kano to star crossed myth I love him
Elli-Dawn
@kitten_sparkles_rose I don't know what to say, I was not expecting to hear this. Makes me feel a little emotional. I can't say how happy it makes me to know you enjoy my writing so much. I'm always doubting myself and am my own worst enemy when it comes to writing but if others are able to appreciate what I try my hardest to create then it makes the effort worth it. Thank you so much for your kind words.
Aishu_12207
Elli-Dawn, I hope everything gets alright. I hope everything becomes ok.. yeah ik me saying it or anyone saying it will not making it ok, but you should know, and I think you probably know it by now, that you are strong, strong enough to get through this. It will all end one day, your miseries, your sadness, your sorrows. Hold onto that thought, it will help you get through it. I have never seen anyone as strong as you girl, just know that you are not alone in this we all are here for you. I became your fan when I read your star crossed myth, and I am so thankful of you. You have amazing writing skills. The way you are able to portray all the feelings, thoughts, everything is just amazing. I just wanted you to know this. You are amazing. Please don't lose your hope. Stay strong. It's ok to cry smtimes, but hold onto the good memories, it will help you get through. I hope everything becomes alright...
Hope you have a good day ahead... Stay strong...
doughnuts16
you go girl , what kind of a father has no regard for his own children let alone someone else
Elli-Dawn
So my father finally responded to my mum's lawyer and now says he wants proceeding to be halted for a further few months. Seperation was only 10-11 months ago and says he needs more time. He probably still thinks he can come back when my Mum wants to divorce him.
And he basically said us kids wanting to commit suicide was not a justifiable reason for him to proceed now and unless he can be presented with a good enough reason he doesn't want to continue. Yep... His kids could die and that isn't good enough for him. Really shows what kind of person he is.
He also says we can have the house and won't contest it but fails to realize doing a consent form is a split of ALL property, not just house. His superannuation is included too. But he thinks just giving us the house, with the 320k debt, is good enough while he still walks away with more money than he should have in his name. But he is too stupid to realize how this all works. He came out with so many lies, and contradicted himself and went around in circles in his reply to the lawyer. Seriously what a moron. My mum is going to be talking with her lawyer tomorrow about how to proceed, but we are not waiting. Freaking no. We have waited long enough. He already told us to wait 6 months in August last year, we are not going to continue waiting now. I just want this OVER I can't take it much longer and am tired of him treating us kids as unimportant and nonexistent.
MariaStapleton
@elli-Dawn Never give up hope. As long as there is a shimmer of hope, reach out and grab it. I agree with @SexyKenu
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SexyKenu
@Elli-Dawn Hang in there. It's almost over. The sun will shine soon and you'll all move forward to better healthier lives. Don't give up dear. There are people who care.
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Elli-Dawn
So I'm not doing too well at all. My emotions are very unstable. It looks like my mum will need to be going to court against my father as he isn't responding to her lawyer at all and we will be pushed to go to court if he isn't talking. Our lives are stuck in limbo because of him, we can't do anything while everything is left in dispute. We don't have much money but my damn father is making us pay a fortune just so we can be free from him.
He thinks we owe him money and he should be paid out. The house in dispute is only worth 450k right now and has a 320k debt which my mum will be taking on. He has 80k value in his name already but wants my mum to pay him out while she is only on a pension and is taking care of 4 kids with special needs and her herself is not doing very good as her body is falling apart on her. Plus she took care of us kids all on her own, he never lifted a finger and only abused us. Over all, her contributions are far far greater than his, even his work, his only real contribution, was pitiful. And even with that my mum brought nearly just as much money in herself over the years. He's making this all so damn difficult after already ruining our lives and now we just want to be free but he won't let it end.
I'm so scared about about going homeless and worry how we will be able to pay for everything. Will we be able to gain our freedom from him? I just want all this over. Due to all the stress I have been having frequent outbursts and even just today I left a hole in the wall of the house and scratched up my arms, neck and face. I have so many scars on my arms now just from injuries I caused in this past year. I keep screaming I want to die and will kill myself. Everytime I lose it I just feel pure rage and can't control myself. If all this doesn't end soon I don't know what I'll do.
LadyNoir98
@ Elli-Dawn hi Ellie I'm Carola. I don't know if the same thing, but I think my uncle is dounf the same thing to us. My parents are separated and we are two sisters and two brothers and he's our neighbour. It's been hell for almost 12 years and there were times when we were scared of what he could do. Luckily, our father is not an a$$hole, so he's helping us NOW, because at the beginning he almost beat my mother. Our uncle wants money, and all of the money he put to pay for our house, since my parents couldn't pay for all. Now he's getting sick and weaker day by day and I'm happy for that, I know it's wrong to think like that but I really don't care. I'm not going to say that everything will be okay, because I would a liar. I'm just going to ask you to not give up because of your father because there will be a day where he'll pay for all he has done to you and especially your mother. I send you all my love and hope that everything will go smoothly.
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ThePowerPikachu
@Elli-Dawn I know life is hard right now and I know that it's hard to see any light in this kind of darkness. But I want you to know that you aren't alone. There are people who love and care about you. Trust in your abilities and keep moving forward. I'm sorry things aren't looking up, but I'll do anything in my power to help if I can. I hope I gave you hope. Just remember that there is always light in the darkest times. You just have to find it.
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doughnuts16
@Elli-Dawn hi im karen i dont think we have spoken before but anyway im not going to say i understand what your going through because chances are i probably dont only you do the person itself nor am i going to tell you not to worry about everything becoz even though iv never met you im sure you would do quite the opposite , i just want you to know your not alone hell if i wrote my life down i would be 50 by the time i finished you and your family will get through this , you can find light even in the darkest of place if only one remember to switch on the light (excuse the HP reference if your not into that ) i just want you to know dieing is not the solution if anything it complicatesthings even more , how would your mum feels or siblings could they handle the cost of a funeral someone once said to me if you have nothing to live for find something you die for i believe everyone is born to do something in this world i dont know if thats true or not but if it was you havent fufilled your task on this earth thats probably why your still alive anyway thats enough from me now i just want you tell you if you ever need someone to talk to i could use a wattpad buddy :) i hope i didnt offend you in anyway
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