Elli-Dawn

So my father finally responded to my mum's lawyer and now says he wants proceeding to be halted for a further few months. Seperation was only 10-11 months ago and says he needs more time. He probably still thinks he can come back when my Mum wants to divorce him. 
          	
          	And he basically said us kids wanting to commit suicide was not a justifiable reason for him to proceed now and unless he can be presented with a good enough reason he doesn't want to continue. Yep... His kids could die and that isn't good enough for him. Really shows what kind of person he is. 
          	
          	He also says we can have the house and won't contest it but fails to realize doing a consent form is a split of ALL property, not just house. His superannuation is included too. But he thinks just giving us the house, with the 320k debt, is good enough while he still walks away with more money than he should have in his name. But he is too stupid to realize how this all works. He came out with so many lies, and contradicted himself and went around in circles in his reply to the lawyer. Seriously what a moron. My mum is going to be talking with her lawyer tomorrow about how to proceed, but we are not waiting. Freaking no. We have waited long enough. He already told us to wait 6 months in August last year, we are not going to continue waiting now. I just want this OVER I can't take it much longer and am tired of him treating us kids as unimportant and nonexistent. 

MariaStapleton

@elli-Dawn
          	  Never give up hope. As long as there is a shimmer of hope, reach out and grab it. I agree with @SexyKenu
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SexyKenu

@Elli-Dawn 
          	  Hang in there.  It's almost over.  The sun will shine soon and you'll all move forward to better healthier lives.  Don't give up dear.  There are people who care.
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Elli-Dawn

@kitten_sparkles_rose I don't know what to say,   I was not expecting to hear this. Makes me feel a little emotional. I can't say how happy it makes me to know you enjoy my writing so much. I'm always doubting myself and am my own worst enemy when it comes to writing but if others are able to appreciate what I try my hardest to create then it makes the effort worth it. Thank you so much for your kind words. 

Aishu_12207

Elli-Dawn, I hope everything gets alright. I hope everything becomes ok.. yeah ik me saying it or anyone saying it will not making it ok, but you should know, and I think you probably know it by now, that you are strong, strong enough to get through this. It will all end one day, your miseries, your sadness, your sorrows. Hold onto that thought, it will help you get through it. I have never seen anyone as strong as you girl, just know that you are not alone in this we all are here for you. I became your fan when I read your star crossed myth, and I am so thankful of you. You have amazing writing skills. The way you are able to portray all the feelings, thoughts, everything is just amazing. I just wanted you to know this. You are amazing. Please don't lose your hope. Stay strong. It's ok to cry smtimes, but hold onto the good memories, it will help you get through. I hope everything becomes alright... 
          
          Hope you have a good day ahead... Stay strong...

Elli-Dawn

So my father finally responded to my mum's lawyer and now says he wants proceeding to be halted for a further few months. Seperation was only 10-11 months ago and says he needs more time. He probably still thinks he can come back when my Mum wants to divorce him. 
          
          And he basically said us kids wanting to commit suicide was not a justifiable reason for him to proceed now and unless he can be presented with a good enough reason he doesn't want to continue. Yep... His kids could die and that isn't good enough for him. Really shows what kind of person he is. 
          
          He also says we can have the house and won't contest it but fails to realize doing a consent form is a split of ALL property, not just house. His superannuation is included too. But he thinks just giving us the house, with the 320k debt, is good enough while he still walks away with more money than he should have in his name. But he is too stupid to realize how this all works. He came out with so many lies, and contradicted himself and went around in circles in his reply to the lawyer. Seriously what a moron. My mum is going to be talking with her lawyer tomorrow about how to proceed, but we are not waiting. Freaking no. We have waited long enough. He already told us to wait 6 months in August last year, we are not going to continue waiting now. I just want this OVER I can't take it much longer and am tired of him treating us kids as unimportant and nonexistent. 

MariaStapleton

@elli-Dawn
            Never give up hope. As long as there is a shimmer of hope, reach out and grab it. I agree with @SexyKenu
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SexyKenu

@Elli-Dawn 
            Hang in there.  It's almost over.  The sun will shine soon and you'll all move forward to better healthier lives.  Don't give up dear.  There are people who care.
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