Well I hate fluffy Love Stories... Because Love is all about intemacy from body to body. Going deeper to the deepest. Knowing each corner of ur partner's body. There is no shame in getting wilder. As long as you are loyal to your partenr, truth to your feelings and don't hesitate to be youself around ur loved one, it's absolutely okay. At least better than goofing around, flinging around other despite having a partner. That's why I don't believe on those love stories where no one show physical affection, trying to act decent like hell no one is decent man. It's okay to want your partner inside you, it's okay to want your partner getting fucked by you. Yes It's okay. But don't forget to take responsibility when needed.