hey :) i just read the comments to the message you posted on jordans message board and i think they were wrong. i don't think it was rude of you. maybe you could have asked a bit nicer but it was okay. i just wanted to tell you that because everyone seemed to be against you and i didn't want you to feel alone :) you are right. to take one year to update is a bit long. maybe she doesn't want to update anymore or there are other reasons, but it was okay of you to tell her to update. i love you <3