FallTricot

On est le 3 janvier, et j’ai pleuré plus de fois en 2026 qu’en 2025 mais tout va bien, ça veut juste dire que je me reconnecte à mes émotions 
          	Ou un truc comme ça
          	Trust 
          	
          	(Si vous voulez savoir les raisons: je me suis couché.e à 21h17 au lieu de 21h15, on m’a parlé.e, Microsoft marchait pas, j’avais oublié comment faire des sources pour mes devoirs, j’avais pas fait mes devoirs, j’avais peur d’être en retard, j’ai pas mangé le repas que je pensais que je mangerais.
          	C’est les raisons les plus random du monde oui oui)
          	
          	Bref ce début d’année? 
          	Des résolutions/objectifs pour l’année?

We_are_only_one

@FallTricot  ✨autism✨ (entre paillettes) (on est dans le même bateau)
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Cactasia

@FallTricot』Duh j'aurai pleuré aussi si ça m'arrivait- c'était complètement légitime et pas random. 
          	  
          	  Moi j'en fais pas des résolutions, parce que je les oublie donc ça sert à rien x) 
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Its_soo_Izzy

@FallTricot je veux que les cours reprennent, j'en peu plus de ma famille ;-;
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FallTricot

On est le 3 janvier, et j’ai pleuré plus de fois en 2026 qu’en 2025 mais tout va bien, ça veut juste dire que je me reconnecte à mes émotions 
          Ou un truc comme ça
          Trust 
          
          (Si vous voulez savoir les raisons: je me suis couché.e à 21h17 au lieu de 21h15, on m’a parlé.e, Microsoft marchait pas, j’avais oublié comment faire des sources pour mes devoirs, j’avais pas fait mes devoirs, j’avais peur d’être en retard, j’ai pas mangé le repas que je pensais que je mangerais.
          C’est les raisons les plus random du monde oui oui)
          
          Bref ce début d’année? 
          Des résolutions/objectifs pour l’année?

We_are_only_one

@FallTricot  ✨autism✨ (entre paillettes) (on est dans le même bateau)
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Cactasia

@FallTricot』Duh j'aurai pleuré aussi si ça m'arrivait- c'était complètement légitime et pas random. 
            
            Moi j'en fais pas des résolutions, parce que je les oublie donc ça sert à rien x) 
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Its_soo_Izzy

@FallTricot je veux que les cours reprennent, j'en peu plus de ma famille ;-;
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FallTricot

As a super reasonable person who does not want to throw their sleep schedule off, I’m going to sleep WAY before midnight (like, right now) so I wish you all a happy new year, 2026 might not be our year but it’s time to create new bingo card sooo
          Happy new year
          I guess
          :DDD

Cactasia

@FallTricot』You're lucky, they kinda forced me to be awake for new year lmao- 
            Anyway I'm now going to sleep, so happy new year to you too ! Wish you the best for the next 365 days <3
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Jvst_Cody

@ FallTricot  Thanks <3
            You too !!
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FallTricot

World Health Organization recognizes gender as:
          “The characteristics of women, men, girls and boys that are socially constructed. This includes norms, behaviours and roles associated with being a woman, man, girl or boy”
          ???
          So we do agree that gender is a social construct?? I believed I was crazy for thinking this because everyone I knew irl told me it was wrong
          I’m correct??

Its_soo_Izzy

@FallTricot I think it's constructed but almost unescapable
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Cactasia

I would like to clarify that I don't mean it as a conscious thing.
            They were raised to think like that, and the thing is : If you fit into the social construct, even a little, you have no reason to reflect on the subject. So they probably don't even realise they are wrong.
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Cactasia

@FallTricot』Yeah you are correct, but it's easier to say that you're not instead of thinking about what it implies. 
            Because if it's true, it mean that they are part of why it's like this. That they are the reason they, themselves, are stuck into certain behaviours. That they push other into roles that are harmful for some of them.
            So it's better to say "It's just like that". Because they don't have to bear this responsibility. 
            
            Anywayyyyyy yeah there is probably some part of genes, but not enough to be impactful I think. We need more studies on it. I know I never really had this behaviour associated with my agab, and turn out that I'm non-binary. I was chocked the first time I met a trans people because it means that some people feel attracted to a gender so much that they are ready to change their entire pattern of behaviour, their body and their role in the society to fit in it. 
            I never felt this attraction and always acted like other people did because "it's like that". 
            I would have never clicked about my identity if I didn't met a trans person, I know it, and I also know it's because of the fact that gender is a social construct 
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FallTricot

I have a lot of things to say so long post
          
          First, dam, I missed a thing: if I was a trans boy, my name could be Tobias?? How cool?? But no, and even if I do count on changing my name I’m not sure Tobias will be accepted 
          
          Second, I just realized today that my username was FallTricot, and that it was oddly similar to the username of the first person I talked to on this platform (FellRico, he’ll always have a special place in my heart, he was the first to encourage me and he was so so cool, really a great person) 
          Like, FellRico and FallTricot really are alike. 
          
          Third, I’m the only and first of all my friends to have brutally cut my hair, making it go from long (reaching my back) to short (high neck level) and now when people want to cut theirs but are unsure, they come ask me 
          And i have very long opinions, because even if cutting hair is great, I got so much criticism when I did it that I feel like it’s my mission to make sure people are aware that you might get negative comments 
          
          Also, can people tell me what they had for Christmas if you did it :( ? In my family we still HAVENT OPENED THE GIFTS WHAT THE FUDGE ARE WE WAITING??

Cactasia

@FallTricot』There are people named Gost or Rock. 
            You can use Tobias if you want. 
            
            If find it cute. It's like an tribute !
            
            Idc about people's opinion I'm gonna cut my hair if I want. The only thing stopping me is my indecision about which hair cut I should get :( 
            
            I got a lego set (the one with flowers in pot, from the botanical collection) and some very welcome money, I'll buy books with it. 
            I hope your gifts will be good for you !
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Its_soo_Izzy

@FallTricot it.is a term, DW. Well you know my gifts... my cool friend I told you about also recently cut their hair short ! How amazing.
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FallTricot

This post wasn’t long and I’m a drama queen 
            Is “drama queen” a thing in English?
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We_are_only_one

Heyy love your account, also where is your pp from ?

FallTricot

Oula
            The face is *probably* the one of a picrew, I don’t know which one I found it on Pinterest; the sweater is a random drawing I found really long ago and I coloured it myself so I’m sorry I’m not sure I can help much ;-;
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FallTricot

When my father is “are your friends texting you?”
          And, yes, but not friends he’s aware I have sooo

Cactasia

@FallTricot』Same for my birthday. I got a message at exactly 00h02, and I was like "Oh someone already sent me a message !", they asked if it was x or y (irl friends) but it was my online best friend ;-; 
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FallTricot

@Its_soo_Izzy strange strange x)
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FallTricot

So, anyone who isn’t reading fan fiction during family event, know that I admire you, but I’m definitely not this strong
          (I’m just hopping there’ll be a good Christmas stream tonight ;-; what is even Christmas this year we open the gift on the 26)
          Merry Christmas to anyone who does it, and good luck to anyone for who it might be difficult 
          (If someone wanna talk I’m freeeee)

Cactasia

@FallTricot』Merry Christmas ! I'll let you know that if I'm not reading fanfictions it's because I'm either 
            helping cooking or gaming. Can't multitask, sorry 
            
            Would love to talk, but it's getting late and I don't have any private contact of you sooo 
            I'll probably won't be checking watty until at least 2h, but good luck to you too 
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Un_Enfant_de_Morphee

@FallTricot (which fanfic?)
            Why opening gifts on 26th it isn’t even Christmas-
            (and merry xmas to you!)
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Its_soo_Izzy

@FallTricot please resuscitate on Discord or WhatsApp, I wanna chat too
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FallTricot

Cheat code pour être correctement genré dans sa famille:
          Ne faites aucun c-o, mais genrez vous correctement (pas forcément tout le temps mais de temps en temps, en augmentant le nombre de fois et l’obviousité du genrage)
          Enfaite ça passe souvent inaperçu de dire je suis prêt/e au lieu de je suis prêt/e (la du coup ça fait pas sens mais c’est pour être inclusif.ve ;-;) mais ça rentre dans le cerveau des gens inconsciemment 
          (En vrai je sais pas c’est juste que j’ai fait ça et que subitement ma mère c’est mis à me genrer bizarrement mais mieux, donc trust ça marche)
          
          @Cactasia c’est super bizarre de demander ça, mais est-ce que tu es out irl ? Parce que t’es la seule personne que je connaisse avec les mêmes pronoms que moi, et que j’arrive pas à les appliquer à l’oral ;-;

Cactasia

@FallTricot』Technique déjà essayé, échec de la mission : on me genre au masculin PTDR 
            
            A part ça je suis out à genre deux personnes et demie, donc pas assez pour pouvoir les dire 
            Mais l'essentiel c'est d'appliquer des termes neutres à l'oreille (nul/nulle mais pas gentil/gentille par exemple), et sinon je vais pas te mentir le cerveau humain est fantastique : si tu sais pas quoi dire, laisse la phrase en suspens. Les gens vont compléter pour toi. 
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Its_soo_Izzy

@FallTricot je commence autour de moi mais pas avec la famille
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