i just feel like this needs to be said even though i’ve had this conversation over and over again this is my last time saying it however people feel after is something they’ll have to deal with.
Yes i am black, no rap music is not my favorite genre, no i don’t fit into the typical black girl or person stereotype people have placed on black people. No this does not mean i hate being black or that i am white washed, i live in and have always lived in a predominantly black community, i love being black never in my life have i ever once wanted to be another race, ive never been ashamed of my skin color or hair texture, nor my eye color, i am fascinated by my features and their origins and roots, yes i like white men, this does not mean i have black men and that i am racist. no i will not date a black man just to “preserve my heritage and bloodline” i am not an animal, i can date whoever i want regardless of how you feel about their race. im tired of people trying to make me aware of my blackness i have over five mirrors in my house i know i am black and i love that indefinitely. just because i don’t fit your stereotypes and your box you want to fit me into does not give you the right to call me racist or tell me that i am denying my blackness. i’m so over it.