@ForeverInBangtanLife
Not me turning 20 ╥﹏╥
@ForeverInBangtanLife because I am 22 and I see there are hardly anyone after their 21 on Wattpad and I am still using Wattpad
@ForeverInBangtanLife Bro you are making me feel conscious about my age Happy Birthday if today is your birthday
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@ForeverInBangtanLife I hope so... Thanks for your kind words. It really means a lot. ❤️ To be honest, Sometimes I just feel like end everything for good. Sometimes it feels too hard to even breath. But still I am surviving may be because somewhere I am still hoping fpr something good to happen with me. I still want to live my dream life, for myself. People always praise me saying I am strong, I am mature, understanding bla bla bla. But if I become honest with myself, I never wanted these all. But my situation forced me to act like an ideal child infront of the society and honestly I hate it. I become a people pleasure person. I want to change it, change myself for good but somehow still end up making people around me happy even if that means hurting myself. Maybe that's what I can do only. I am really disappointed, not on me. But my parent's parenting.
Patriarchy is so deeply rooted that even 'EDUCATED WOMAN' think that women are only valuable if they can produce children. I'm not against having kids or getting pregnant but as a girl by myself I don't think that pregnancy is my responsibility but it is my choice.
If I don't want to be pregnant then it is a clear NO. I've many more things to achieve and they are even more important for me. Maybe in future I would think differently but even then I would loudly say that getting pregnant is my choice.
Even after having many achievements why are women still thinking that getting pregnant is the biggest achievement of their life? What I want to say is that it's okay if you don't reproduce, it's okay if you don't want to have kids and it's okay if you don't sacrifice yourself to your child. I agree that having a soul inside your womb is a biggest blessing but only if you had a say in it.
Why I'm ranting this? Because I have seen educated women around me telling how important it is for you to get pregnant at a proper age. The most annoying thing my lady professor said is that nowadays there is a trend going on that people get married at the age of 30s or even late. I was like it's not a trend! There is a reason why ladies are getting married late, we want freedom, we want to earn on our own and have our own identity.
We've watched our mothers and grandmothers having no say in their marriages and suffering afterwards. And we don't want to be like them. This isn't a trend but a reality check. Patriarchy has been leading because women who support these types of thoughts still exist.
I just want to say to all my lovely and precious ladies, please live your own life and be so competent that no man can control you. You all are capable enough to feed your own self. Let's not fall into another scheme of patriarchy.
I love you guys so much!! ♡(*´ω｀*)/♡
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@ForeverInBangtanLife agree with you can you imagine my mom is like complete your studies quickly do a job and earn money for 2 years and then get married by 26-27 like seriously she thinks after 27 a girl is old and no one will marry her like seriously and suprisingly her own brothers that is my mamas married somewhere around 35 and it was good like really and will you believe still my mamis are 8-10 years younger than them and people say age gap is not there nowadays and it is only in movies, kdrama and Wattpad And the greatest achievement for them is to conceive within a year and if it's not a boy child the purpose goes on until a boy is born Nowadays the thought of earning a lot and settling somewhere far away with an adopted child sound more appealing rather than marrying
@minsoori06 Your life is worth it maybe not your mom but to you. I'm not good at comforting but there's one thing I always say when people start doubting themselves, everything can't work according to how we actually planned. But I want to say that you shouldn't be disappointed in yourself because you are important to your own self. We don't want husbands we want an equal partner and I'm pretty sure you'll get it when time comes
@sexymikkie We can live our own lives because we are adults. They should mind their own fu*king business!!!
HAPPY BTS FESTA!!!
@shinhaari OMG HAARI!! Thank you so much and I'm so sorry for the late reply ╥﹏╥
Is anyone reading the tale of past? I'm planning to post a chapter... If there is no response in this announcement then there will be a delay in next update
Done ╥﹏╥
I just published " " of my story " || ". https://www.wattpad.com/1628211139?utm_source=android&utm_medium=profile&utm_content=share_published&wp_page=create_on_publish&wp_uname=ForeverInBangtanLife
IT'S FESTA MONTH.
I was supposed to update both my stories long before but got stuck with my own personal life. I'll post Taste of Love in this week itself!!! My readers please wait a little bit. I promise to post regularly now that I'm free. Lots of love and hugs ♡(*´ω｀*)/♡
Dear Readers,
This announcement is for my readers. I'll be posting the new chapter of Taste of love first. Tale of Past? I'll be continuing that story no matter how many readers are there. The update will be slow but I'll complete that story. So I want you readers to interact with both the stories if possible.
@ForeverInBangtanLife Dw about the number of readers buddy! The readers who genuinely love the story will stay till the end Take your time with the updates and please continue..! Best wishes.❤️