Froggy1988

@Froggy1988 I'm so sory that happened to you, I have never been bullied in my life, and I'm blessed for that, but I know a lot of people have! 
            Actually, if you ask me I even know this from a Billy's perspective...but 5 years have changed me in a lot of ways and I'm grateful im not what I used to be,
            What I'm trying to say is, I know how you feel, I may have never felt this pain myself but when I look around I see a lot of bullies who hurt others, only yesterday a friend of mine was accused, so I know it's hard, but I also want you to know that if you ever need a friend to talk to or someone you can trust, I'll always be here, and I'm not letting any bully mess with you, tell them if they ever do that again I will blow them up with my frying pan!!!

@Froggy1988 Yesterday, I had a sit down with my husband and he said to me "Love, you used to come down here after writing and be happy and excited and tell me all the lovely things you'd been doing , but that hasn't happened now for ages, now you just talk about how people are being toxic.' I agreed with him, and decided it was time to step.back for a while, because the fandom really had killed my joy of writing - my one thing that has always got me through tough times.
            
            
             I'm looking back on my year in this fandom, and I'm thinking a lot about the positives and the negatives. And let me say - I have met people on this fandom that I truly care about, that I have connected with, and that I truly consider friends even though we may never have actually  met. I know a lot of other people I admire who produce artwork thats stunning.  There are a lot of people I have not got to know well but that I can tell are talented, caring, likable people. 
            
            
            But there's this small element,  thats like a virus - ruining everything it touches. There's these people who feel they have the power to control the dialogue  In the fandom, that push they're ideas aggressively onto others, that think that they are more important than others, that stomp around intimidating, and shouting over others. That refuse the idea that they could possibly be wrong, that refuse to apologise if they've caused offence. People that have no interest in supporting others, that are only there to self advertise, to try and get attention and to try and be in control of others.
            
            
            So if anybody, recognises what I'm saying , and has in any way shape or form ever felt hurt, or bullied, or intimidated, or silenced, by these toxic members, then please know that I will be here to listen to you. 
            
            

@A_deity ❤

@Froggy1988 Family always comes first, Froggy! I support your decision though I am gonna miss you a lot!! It's like bidding farewell to a loved one even when you know that you'll meet again, soon. A few tears were (and will be) shed, but the hope to meet each other soon is alive and strong in the heart ❤ 

@Froggy1988 of course, your writings are legit awesome! They're so perfect, each of your books are incredible. And it's alright, like I said, you've earned it girl! I'll be here for you and support you in every way *I hold a banner that says 'froggy rocks'* 
            
            You rock girl!!!