Full_0f_Flaws

It's a request to everyone to please read the below message..... I know its too long that's why I had to post as replys...... But please its a request to read it at least once so that you or your loved ones don't have to face all that and just be cautious.

Full_0f_Flaws

@pearlkim270 Heyy.... You should feel lucky that you have good people checking on you.... I sometimes feel that me and my sister are so unlucky in life that nothing good happens with us....you have good people around you who actually care about you....My elder brother has a best friend who was in college when I was in 4th standard ( age difference) since then he used to live with us in our house because his hometown was somewhere else... He was like an elder brother to me I admired him so much because he always used to teach me and play with me but until I came to 9th standard he developed feelings for me even though for me he was just my brother and then everything changed so quickly..... After living with us for so many years my family trusted him so much he actually became the son of this house and whenever my family had to go somewhere and I had my school they used to leave me with him .... At that time many more things were going on in my life I didn't even wanted to go to school and I also didn't wanted to go home because of him whenever I used to come home I would just go in a room and lock it from inside until my family came and so many things happened. This kept going on for 3 years until I was in 11th and he had to go somewhere else for his job. I never got the courage to tell anyone from my family because I just couldn't. He was a son to them. Even he is now. They still talk to him every single day. Every person in my family. Those 3 years were so bad for me because he was someone I always trusted. I couldn't even explain how it feels to not feel safe in your own home.

Full_0f_Flaws

It's a request to everyone to please read the below message..... I know its too long that's why I had to post as replys...... But please its a request to read it at least once so that you or your loved ones don't have to face all that and just be cautious.

Full_0f_Flaws

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Hlwww! 
          Please Please Please just read this message once. 
          This is a message to all the girls over here. I know I should not tell my family's personal details over here but I just want each and every girl who reads this to be just aware if you're going to get married or your cousins or friends are going to be married. 
          
          So It all started one year ago my elder sister got married and the marriage was fixed 8 months before marriage. And obviously it was an arranged marriage and being from a middle class family we did everything we can to know their family background, the groom's ( REMEMBER this that he did phd from BHU and is an assistant professor in a very well known university ) history and everything from our relatives or their relatives and also every way we can and all we got was GOOD background and character. Things were going well we were all happy and preparing for the wedding. But when the marriage was in 4 months we said to let the groom and bride start talking ( because obviously that's very very very important ) and the groom's family first said that in their family they don't start talking  this early ( which is just bullshit and even the groom's 2 sisters are married at least they should have said something but they didn't ) and we thought that it's ok we'll say to talk from next month and their new excuse was that their "SO CALLED BABU IS VERY SHARMILA " We requested a lot of times and his mother and sisters just kept saying that he'll talk in few days ( even his sisters or mother never for once called her to ask if she is fine and this just kept going on and  we were not in position to cancel the marriage just 1 months ago because everyone said that it's not a valid reason at least he is good he just doesn't speak much........ And then the marriage happened.

pearlkim270

@Full_0f_Flaws just stay strong. That's what i can say , and if you don't feel right,  feel any discomfort, don't suppress it . I'm so sorry , please always stay safe.
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pearlkim270

@Full_0f_Flaws girl, i feel so sorry for you, i wish i could just hug you at least console you . In our middle-class family, it's really hard for us . I don't know how many girls felt that and have to stay silent.  And if you want to say , i know they will not believe you  , and society only judges the girl . 
            
            Sometimes, i wish if i have enough power to change society's mentality . :-(
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pearlkim270

@Full_0f_Flaws, i don't know what to say, but i literally shivered because this is too much , i don't know how your sister felt that time . You know I'm reading this while I'm alone in my home and one worker working in my home , my parents have private job they both are so scared but their boss didn't let them take off day . Now I'm alone with my two cats they sense that I'm in tension, so they are quitly sitting beside me . And my parents told my neighbors to sometimes come and watch me , so my one uncle came and look at me if I'm ok , told the worker to do his job well.  My parents calling me in 15 minutes,  my best friend called me 10 minutes ago if I'm ok . I'm feeling kind a realif but you know na , as a girl what I'm feeling right now . I thought to share so i share it .
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