FurryGirl011818

Are any of the four people who follow me for some reason able to give me a hug? I just had my first breakup and I’m not sure how to handle it, but I feel like it’s somehow my fault even though she said it’s not. I feel like I’ve been shot through the chest and I just don’t know what to do anymore. Hugs and advice would be appreciated, thanks.

FurryGirl011818

Thank you both. I really think I just needed a bit of reassurance on this. I just don’t know how to handle this but I think remembering that it isn’t my fault and that I will find this feeling again will help. Thanks again for the kind words  it may not seem that helpful but it really means a lot to me
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GrayingRaven

@FurryGirl011818 *hugs* I know how you feel, the best medicine right know though is to just move on...
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certifiedvampire

@FurryGirl011818 *hugs* its in the past. the best thing you can do for yourself is to move on. dwelling on the past only brings about more sadness and heartbreak. you had this once, you'll have it again. and even if it turns out the same way, thats ok. just keep moving forward, because there will always be great things in your future, relationship related or not.
          	  
          	  sorry i cant help more, ive never experienced this so i dont know really what im talking about
          	  
          	  i hope you feel better!
          	  
          	  also, listen to her. its not your fault. being in a relationship is a two person thing. its not always your fault. and in this case, unless you were the one who ended it, its not your fault
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FurryGirl011818

Are any of the four people who follow me for some reason able to give me a hug? I just had my first breakup and I’m not sure how to handle it, but I feel like it’s somehow my fault even though she said it’s not. I feel like I’ve been shot through the chest and I just don’t know what to do anymore. Hugs and advice would be appreciated, thanks.

FurryGirl011818

Thank you both. I really think I just needed a bit of reassurance on this. I just don’t know how to handle this but I think remembering that it isn’t my fault and that I will find this feeling again will help. Thanks again for the kind words  it may not seem that helpful but it really means a lot to me
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GrayingRaven

@FurryGirl011818 *hugs* I know how you feel, the best medicine right know though is to just move on...
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certifiedvampire

@FurryGirl011818 *hugs* its in the past. the best thing you can do for yourself is to move on. dwelling on the past only brings about more sadness and heartbreak. you had this once, you'll have it again. and even if it turns out the same way, thats ok. just keep moving forward, because there will always be great things in your future, relationship related or not.
            
            sorry i cant help more, ive never experienced this so i dont know really what im talking about
            
            i hope you feel better!
            
            also, listen to her. its not your fault. being in a relationship is a two person thing. its not always your fault. and in this case, unless you were the one who ended it, its not your fault
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