hey there, let me just inform the people that i sometimes roleplay with that if i ask to not go straight into smut, even if it's been a few days or longer since we started a roleplay, can we please not go straight into smut ? like i understand that smut is an easy way to * y'know * because i was born with hypersexual genes, but i am also graysexual and don't always want to appease those genes because of stuff that i've gone through that still affect me to this day.
so moral of the story, if someone doesn't want to do something / not wanting to do it right away, then don't do it anyways, you never know what they have and haven't been through and doing something like that could hurt them even more.