Ganesh_62

Today, I came across a "book" (my friend @yublen_writes is protesting against it)
          	
          	The title of the book is "Ruin me, Daddy". Yea that's the title. The book promotes child marriage, sexual relationship of  of a widowed Daughter-in law and her wealthy father-in law. 
          	
          	What the F***ing hell you might think.. But the truly astounding part is that the  author ruinwithriley is calling it "dark romance, taboo passion, unholy, irresistible". The author is tagging every voice against her work as "hatred". Author even posted a story calling people to scroll past if this isn't in their interest.
          	
          	This ain't dark romance at all. This ain't morally grey, its just "morally degrading". I'm not gonna tell anyone what to do, but I'M GONNA REPORT THIS. 
          	
          	This book is trying to bring those elements into picture that has been ruining women's life for centuries. This is borderline normalizing. 
          	
          	Please don't let such books to flourish, because tomorrow 100 other immature authors will start writing such books and completely normalize these. DO THE NEEDFUL

selectivelySocial_JM

@Ganesh_62 well said. 
          	  Initally i wrote more realistic stories but adhu did not garner much views.  Indian marriage meet, marriage expectations, Mr and Mrs unromantic. 
          	  
          	  Adhuvum Mr and Mrs la people commented about not accepting the ml on certain aspects and he should have done this. Same way to FL sreeja. But realityvis different. People are flawed. 
          	  
          	  The thing is readers wanted to escape reality and divert their attention to get fresh mind. 
          	  
          	  Fictional dhaney nu theriyum atleast adhulayavadhu enjoy pannikalamnu soluvaanga. I agree. But adhu poga poga marandruvom. We unknowingly tend to fall for those and develop expectations based on that. 
          	  
          	  Light ah unrealistic scenes add panna arambichen.. Like what if this happens? Fictional dhaney. Paravalanu. But now I feel like I too have drowned into the same unrealistic ones unknowingly. 
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Ganesh_62

@selectivelySocial_JM Aama akka. Outlandish descriptions in fictional stories distort our senses subconsciously and impacts how we perceive and life in reality. 
          	  
          	  Few years back, Prominent research reported fictional romance has created more problems in interpersonal & martial relationships in US. Unrealistic expectations fostered by romantic fiction often lead to dissatisfaction in real-life relationships, as the fictional portrayals of partners and relationships may not align with reality.
          	  
          	  there is also a research finding stating that Women who study romance fiction has negative feelings towards condom usage that women who don't study romance fiction. This is because authors tend to promote "Raw" intercourse activity in order to bring more eroticism. 
          	  
          	  Reading books should teach us good things, not prompt us to make questionable decisions.
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selectivelySocial_JM

@Ganesh_62 this pyschology part. 
          	  
          	  I wanted to say as I am under counseling.  The first thing they said is don't believe what is written in books completely. I meant the erotica, p*n and other mature theme related and any other pyschic related. 
          	  
          	  People tend to imagine things and exaggerate so many in books to get readers and audiences. 
          	  
          	  
          	  Those are having deep impact in ones Brain unknowingly and will have deep impacts. 
          	  
          	  And now that I thought about that story zanjeer and other stories like that.. I feel they are very risky. 
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irixiin_

Hey lovely author/reader 
          How are you doing? Sorry to bother you, but I'd mean so much to me if you give my book "separated petals" a try, I'm new to this. So if you have some suggestions and comments, feel free to tell me.
          Thank you so much. ❤️❤️
          https://www.wattpad.com/story/404331431?utm_source=android&utm_medium=link&utm_content=story_info&wp_page=story_details_button&wp_uname=NyxIGk

niyatidrdz

Heyy ganesh!!! I am very surprised to find a guy on Wattpad!! I really think that your gf or your wife would be lucky to have a man like you as you know all the ways to make a women happy by reading romance novels ofc!!. And I needed a favour please helpp me by suggesting some book as I am currently in a reading slump!!! I found you in the comments of veil of desires but that book too is also not making me you know feel the vibe iykyk!!! I want some suggestions of the books that as a man you find the besttt!!

Ganesh_62

@niyatidrdz good choice.. its a worthy read actually. And yes, I'll definitely drop my suggestions.
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niyatidrdz

And one more thing if you read published novels then give me some suggestions for that too!!
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crmsnpen

It wasn’t supposed to happen this way.
          He was meant to teach her, not marry her.
          She was meant to graduate, not fall for the man who once graded her papers with cold precision.
          But when fate tied their names together, love came quietly — through silences, stares, and the spaces between anger and understanding.
          
          This is a story of two hearts learning to beat together after the vows — a desi romance that’s soft, aching, and full of small moments that linger long after you stop reading.
          
           If you love forbidden love, slow-burns, and poetic heartbreak — maybe this story will find you.
          
          https://www.wattpad.com/story/401049127?utm_source=android&utm_medium=link&utm_content=story_info&wp_page=story_details_button&wp_uname=crmsnpen

manchanai

Hello there !!
          
           When I accidentally stumbled upon a male reader on Wattpad, especially a Tamil one!! It's safe to say , I wouldn't  be surprised anymore, even if a 
          a unicorn trotted past my house! !!
          
          For starters, I’m just an amateur author in desperate need of some male perspective and honest feedback on my stories. Please do drop by when you have time, and don’t hesitate to call me out on any absurdity or silliness you spot!
          
          Thank you so much for your divine work, Mr. Ganesha! ✨
          
          

Ganesh_62

@manchanai hey hi :)
            Lol idk if I'm worth the hype. But sure, I'll drop by when I'm free and I NEVER SHY AWAY from criticism and feedback when I spot absurdity (I wont be unreasonably harsh either). 
            
            So yes, Lets meet in the comments in your books :)
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Icharmi

Hello, I’ve seen you around on Wattpad, commenting and engaging with stories! I was wondering if you could recommend me some books to read?

Ganesh_62

@Icharmi my pleasure. Sure :). Drop a message on my feed incase if you need suggestions.
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Icharmi

And as of  now  I’m a bit busy with college at the moment, but I’m planning to start reading novels during my summer break maybe then I’ll ask u for recommendations.     Tyy
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Malumadhu

@Ganesh_62 this story got deleted before too.. but that time i was new... i added pictures and all that.. so yeah ok.. I had 2k reads that time.. but now it reached 80k reads and got deleted.. idk if I could reach that much tho i update it again.. 
          
          About backup, i think I have for some chapters but I still got to edit it for better.. 
          
          I think I have to  play more with words like using indirect words.. idk if it got deleted for explicit words.. yea, little disappointed that it got deleted at it's 80k reads;) but also i wasn't writing much these days.. so idk if I should continue it or not.. 
          
          What do you think? Is that story worthy to be updated again.. 
          
          They keep deleting it tho.. 
          

Malumadhu

Hey, how are you doing:) well, my story DESIRE got deleted by Wattpad.. expected right?! 

Ganesh_62

@Malumadhu hey, I'm okay. How are you doing? 
            
            Huh! I wouldn't say I expected that, but not surprised either. Content regulation is just so rudimentary and non-contextual on this platform. Anything pathetic crap disgused as dark romance never gets deleted, but those that are not serious gets sacked.
            
            Frustating sometimes, tbh.
            
            Do you have a backup btw?
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Ganesh_62

Today, I came across a "book" (my friend @yublen_writes is protesting against it)
          
          The title of the book is "Ruin me, Daddy". Yea that's the title. The book promotes child marriage, sexual relationship of  of a widowed Daughter-in law and her wealthy father-in law. 
          
          What the F***ing hell you might think.. But the truly astounding part is that the  author ruinwithriley is calling it "dark romance, taboo passion, unholy, irresistible". The author is tagging every voice against her work as "hatred". Author even posted a story calling people to scroll past if this isn't in their interest.
          
          This ain't dark romance at all. This ain't morally grey, its just "morally degrading". I'm not gonna tell anyone what to do, but I'M GONNA REPORT THIS. 
          
          This book is trying to bring those elements into picture that has been ruining women's life for centuries. This is borderline normalizing. 
          
          Please don't let such books to flourish, because tomorrow 100 other immature authors will start writing such books and completely normalize these. DO THE NEEDFUL

selectivelySocial_JM

@Ganesh_62 well said. 
            Initally i wrote more realistic stories but adhu did not garner much views.  Indian marriage meet, marriage expectations, Mr and Mrs unromantic. 
            
            Adhuvum Mr and Mrs la people commented about not accepting the ml on certain aspects and he should have done this. Same way to FL sreeja. But realityvis different. People are flawed. 
            
            The thing is readers wanted to escape reality and divert their attention to get fresh mind. 
            
            Fictional dhaney nu theriyum atleast adhulayavadhu enjoy pannikalamnu soluvaanga. I agree. But adhu poga poga marandruvom. We unknowingly tend to fall for those and develop expectations based on that. 
            
            Light ah unrealistic scenes add panna arambichen.. Like what if this happens? Fictional dhaney. Paravalanu. But now I feel like I too have drowned into the same unrealistic ones unknowingly. 
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Ganesh_62

@selectivelySocial_JM Aama akka. Outlandish descriptions in fictional stories distort our senses subconsciously and impacts how we perceive and life in reality. 
            
            Few years back, Prominent research reported fictional romance has created more problems in interpersonal & martial relationships in US. Unrealistic expectations fostered by romantic fiction often lead to dissatisfaction in real-life relationships, as the fictional portrayals of partners and relationships may not align with reality.
            
            there is also a research finding stating that Women who study romance fiction has negative feelings towards condom usage that women who don't study romance fiction. This is because authors tend to promote "Raw" intercourse activity in order to bring more eroticism. 
            
            Reading books should teach us good things, not prompt us to make questionable decisions.
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selectivelySocial_JM

@Ganesh_62 this pyschology part. 
            
            I wanted to say as I am under counseling.  The first thing they said is don't believe what is written in books completely. I meant the erotica, p*n and other mature theme related and any other pyschic related. 
            
            People tend to imagine things and exaggerate so many in books to get readers and audiences. 
            
            
            Those are having deep impact in ones Brain unknowingly and will have deep impacts. 
            
            And now that I thought about that story zanjeer and other stories like that.. I feel they are very risky. 
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Justromcoms

Hey there Ganesh,
          
          I really like the way your articulate your thoughts in your conversation board and in your comments on stories!
          
          I'm Sahana, and I think every good book deserves readers like you. So I introduce you to BOMBAY ROMANCE.
          
          Is my book good? Well, that's for you to judge. Many of my readers think so, though. And I would love to have readers who comment as they traverse the chapters, aka, you!
          
          So what does my story have? That's for you to unravel as you read. I can tell what it does NOT have:
          
          • Billionaire CEO/ Mafia hero
          • Forced/ Contract/ Revenge marriage
          • Love triangle 
          • Abuse, Trauma and Toxicity
          • Smartphones, Mobile phones, Internet, Social Media ... 
          
          The last point got you thinking? Check out the story once! If it disappoints, well, I don't know. Because I'm pretty sure it won't.
          
          Thanks for reading this message, if not anything else. Else, I'll meet you in my story:)
          
          https://www.wattpad.com/story/344903285?utm_source=android&utm_medium=link&utm_content=story_info&wp_page=story_details_button&wp_uname=Justromcoms
          

Justromcoms

@Ganesh_62 Hey, no problem. Please take your time:))) And yes, I did paint that!!
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Ganesh_62

@Justromcoms Hey, Sahana. 
            
            I'd appreciate more patience from your side because this poor reader is stuck up in his tight deadlines (not entirely his fault though). 
            
            But as I promised, I'll definitely read once my deadlines stops choking and lets me breathe okay?
            
            Also I checked (not stalked) your instagram profile, hehehe XD. I really LOVED that painting. Did you paint that?
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Justromcoms

@Ganesh_62 Hey, thanks for acknowledging my message. I shall look forward to your comments. Happy reading in advance! :)))))
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