Hi! I read the discussion between you and another person on the comments section of a book whose author asked gently to out a stop to it so out of respect for her i will not comment there but you asked for a third view so here i am, sorry if you don't care about that anymore.
Anyway i totally agree with you: men and women should have the same rights about their nipples because come on they're just breast and if guys can go around shirtless so should women be able to go around braless or shirtless. And if women can't so shouldn't men.
It's simple, free nipples for everybody or for nobody.
Another question is: i've read you talking about breastfeeding and since the only country i know that makes a fuss out of it is America i suppose you're American (but i could be wrong, no offence)? Why do people there care so much about breastfeeding calling it disgusting and even calling the police? It's absurd to me (European); it's just an act to not making the baby starve and bother anybody near, i don't see mothers that take their boobs out just to shoot their milk on the people so why don't they just do their business and look elseway?!
Sorry for the rant, i probably made many mistakes since i'm not an english speaker, bear with me please.