first. i go by they/them.
second, once more, this is a personal issue, you shouldnt address it to the public.
and how am i violating you? i asked you to remove a post that is a personal issue, if you have a problem with something i am doing, feel free to let me know.
and how am i telling you what you can and cannot do? i asked you as politely as i could to remove a post that was supposed to be left in chats.
if you have a problem with me, go ahead and block me.