GoinDownWithTheShip

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GoinDownWithTheShip

HEY GUYYYYYYS. I know its been a while, and I apologize, but man we got school, we got family, get got drama and singing, we got dealing with sexuality, we got trashy current mental health state, we gotta lot. But your girl updated her poems book (yaaaaay) and I hope you guys go read it. I'm stressing this one a bit more than others because I have really been struggling with things lately and that has contributed greatly to my not updating, and I feel like you guys deserve to know what's currently going on. So yeah, go check that out. Peace!

MarvelLover_TacoLady

@GoinDownWithTheShip You are welcome. Everyone deserves a bit of peace.
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MarvelLover_TacoLady

@GoinDownWithTheShip Hey, I hope things get better!!
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GoinDownWithTheShip

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Alright y'all I'm about to go into the depths of ranting time because I need to get this shit off of my chest and its just really- oh damn it you know what let's just jump right in. So if you haven't noticed I'm coming out as bisexual (insert jazz hands here) and while being myself is all fine and dandy, I feel like people look at me differently. Like, I'll be held to a different standard. People are expecting me to act like a stereotypical gay I guess? But I don't know...I'm just really overwhelmed. I also came out to my mom and she told me I should not be labeling myself and is acting really against the whole thing. People at school feel like making gay jokes around me is acceptable because I'm bi and I keep hearing it as an insult. I don't know, people think I'm not supposed to be labeling myself. Did I do something wrong? Did I come out too early? Why do I feel like I'm a mistake?

MarvelLover_TacoLady

You are not a mistake, you didn't do anything wrong. You didn't wake up one day and say 'Hey, why not become Bi?' it doesn't work that way. That's how you are, and I hope you know you don't need to be anything else.
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MarvelLover_TacoLady

Hi, I'm bi too, and I haven't come out to anyone irl except my best friend. I know my family would disapprove, and I'm really scared for if they ever find out. I know how terrible it is to feel that way and I need you to know you are still you. You are still amazing, and you love who you love.  I wish your mom could realize you aren't labeling yourself, you are just telling the people around you your preferences. Just because you are bisexual doesn't mean you are A bisexual. For instance, I have hair, I also have nails. Now just because I have hair does not mean I AM hair. It is just a part of me. I am also not a nail. Just because something is part of you are does not make it the defining thing of who you are.
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