Kitty Block

Update on the Linus sh** : 
          
          We've been talking via email about making up with each other, and I feel like I started super friendly and open, maybe slightly defensive. He basically brought up things I'd done wrong but refused to tell me what they were, just that his sister "hates me and wants me dead" but not why. I'm the kind of person where if you tell me something exists (like hatred toward me) but not why I get really mad and he knows this I know he knows this. 
          
          Anyway I got mad and a little passive aggressive and he said and I quote "Katherine, I just wasn't phrasing things like they're your fault, while l was insensitive, these things were mostly your fault and it's honestly really frustrating that you  still see yourself as 100% of the victim here" Katherine is not my preferred name and he knows it. And I don't see myself as 100% the victim as I've said to him in the past, but also how am I not a victim here? I'm at least 90% victim if not closer to 97%. If anyone has any advice, even just trying to support his side (but be respectful this has been really hard I had a relapse because of him) please please help me I'm not doing this for attention I just really need help figuring out what I'm doing wrong here.

After this month, i start to think everything has cooled down between us, until my partners dad reaches out to my parents because linus's parents talked to my partners parents saying linus still didnt like me, and didnt feel safe around me. fair i guess, but please dont wait a whole month to bring it up again! We have a talk with me, him, his mom, and my partners dad. I get zero chances to speak, and linus attacks me saying every single thing id ever done wrong to him yet not admitting to anything hed done wrong to me. he was mad that when i get upset i ask him not to talk to me while i process it myself, and how long it had taken me. the talk sends me into a panic attack, and what i remember happening is me running into a ditch and crying until my mom found me. 
          
          where i am, with avoiding my partner and not feeling safe around linus, isnt working. i need help knowing how to move forward, and ideas for how to forgive him (if thats what i should do. something i didnt mention is he never ever apologized first, every time he messed up i apologized for how i reacted to his "mistakes." he told my partner over a week ago he was thinking about sending an apology email, but hasnt yet.) 
          
          Please please please give me some advice, i really need it!!!!

Because of the person I'm dating, he invited me to his campaign and I was his most (and only) consistent person who showed up to every session, even when it meant I had to cancel something else. About a month goes by, and he asks me to get on another zoom call with him. He tells me he wants help asking out someone he likes (who has also been rude to me and my friends in the past) and so I do, and they successfully start dating. Later that night, he texts me saying he didnt like how I handled it, and his sister texts me yelling at me too. About 4 months later, he kicked me out of his campaign for "ruining the experience for all the other players." He had done several other things that really hurt my feelings at this point, and when i tried to tell him so he called my emotional and said i was overreacting. This next part is really important: I've always hated spiders. I've had some really bad experiences with spiders, and this guy knew it. one day, we found a spider about 3-4 inches long. When my dad got out the fly swatter to kill it, AFTER ITS DEATH it jumped onto his arm. I went onto a group chat that happened to have linus on it, and he asked me why i would kill a spider. "Why would you kill a spider? Spiders are cute. Cuter than cats." As you know, he had insulted my cat three times at this point, and I had told him to never do it again because it was mean and i had already made it very very VERY clear it was not a joke to me, even if it was to him. Looking back it was petty and not worth my following response. Over the group chat, I yelled at his friend, eventually saying linus deserved to be dead. I regret this, but i was incredibly mad. after this i left the group chat. a month goes by, during which i start avoiding him in every possible scenario, and giving him and my partner a lot more space so my partner could still be with their best friend. 
          ran out of characters again! geez i talk a lot sorry guys...

Y'all I really need your help with something, I really need some advice. So, almost a year ago, I started dating this truly wonderful and amazing person that I truly love. They are my best friend in the whole world and I trust them completely, more than I've ever ever trusted anyone else EVER before. However, this person's best friend (who's name I shouldnt share but I kinda want to put his home address and license plate number just out of spite on here) decided he hated me. When me and this person started dating, he told them to break up with me like every single day like that was all he said to me for at least a month probably more. He starts asking me to zoom call at like 10:30-11:30 at night at least once a week, to pressure m into telling him al my secrets, with one he was particularly keen to get about my self harm (however he didnt know for sure id ever committed self harm) Eventually, he got over his stupid petties with me and called my cat horrible and disgusting (my cat is really important to me because she is literally the ONLY thing thats never left me hurt me or at all changed my whole life and he did this without me provoking him at all, no he never apologized for it.) obviously, I got pretty mad about it and never really let it go. The second time he did it I yelled at him. Around this time I joined one campaign of D&D with him, run by a mutual friend. I say this because that means he saw my play style, not to mention I was in another campaign run by his sister, who complained about me a lot and has gossiped a lot about me behind my back. 
          
          Im running out of characters, i'll post a pt2 very shortly!!

guysssssss im going campingggggggg im so excitedddddd XD 
          
          also saying this so you know why im not going to be responding to comments for like a week or so im fine dont worry (unless i get eaten by a bear)

Idk if this is the place to say this, but i just tried oiling my hair for the first time, and OH MY COD it's soooooooo soft ^^ im going to have to start doing this more often ^^ i basically just added a very smol amount of olive, avocado, and coconut oil to my hair, brushing, running my fingers through it for a while, really making sure it was even, then tied it up and left it for about two hours while going about my daily life, washed it out like how i normally wash my hair, waited for it to dry, and now its soft af oh my cod its so fluffy (like scar and grian cuddles)

does anyone know some good vegan recipes/recipes that can easily be turned vegan? I'm a vegan looking for some new foods to try, especially if they have good protein. 
          
          I have this situation: four nights of the week I go to a workout session for something. I really want to get stronger, but as a vegan I'm finding it hard to make the same tofu recipe and have that be my main way to get protein. I love tofu, but I prepare it similarly every time. I need help, and if you can help me that would be really appreciated! 
          
          Also I'll accept non vegan recipes because I know a ton of tricks to turn them vegan super easily, but may as well start where I want to finish right? 
          
          Oh, if you have any dessert ideas, I have an event coming up that will serve about thirty-fifty people, a lot of them being vegan/vegetarian, so if you have any ideas for that I would love to hear them! 
          
          Thank you even if you didn't have any ideas because you are an amazing person and I'm so glad you're here with us today. 
          
          (1000 words omc thats so satisfying i wasnt going to add a word count but i feel like i have to)

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