Gray898
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Bruh everyone around me thinks I’m a dude , like I’m genuinely wondering if I’m gonna be alone all my life because I’m myself , I like masculine things but I’m a girl , I act a little boyish and dress mostly masculine but like that doesn’t make me any less of a girl, I’m still a girl underneath all I wear , I just hope I can find a dude that will appreciate me for me , and will be the one to take initiative and stuff and maybe help me embrace my feminine traits idk but like I wish I could wear what other girls wear but I can’t because it doesn’t look right on me. I genuinely feel no dudes gonna want me , and my type is like a manly dude so like I’m fucked because those types of dudes want feminine girls , not girls like me who are tomboys. I just want to feel loved and accepted already.
Gray898
@SleepyJelly-n9 This makes a lot of sense , I also really crave that connection that lacks in my life like I just want that but it’s hard to get , I also appreciate your perspective and help ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
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SleepyJelly-n9
@Gray898 A person who will love you will be one who looks past all those things on the outer layers and straight into the heart. In your heart is what you know you are. People will force opinions and standards onto you and taint the outer reputation. There will be people who wont look in your direction and thats their choice but I can assure you there will be someone who will chose to give you a chance. The most important thing to remember is to not give up before things have gotten a chance to start. If you give up on yourself you only aim to sabatoge your future. Keep your that chin up with those hopes and walk with the confidence that these thoughts wont and I me WONT be strong enough to stop you.
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SleepyJelly-n9
@Gray898 I get how you feel with wanting to be loved and accepted now... But trust me right now at this age isnt as worth it as you think. I know from experience that wanting love to soon can leave you hurt far worse then when you started. Someone will love you but now isnt the appropriate time which is why it doesnt seem like it will be true. Things are conflicting at this age in time and thats perfectly normal but doesnt mean those nasty thoughts will be true. You're not fully out there in the world yet Gray so you dont actually know that nobody will want you so focus on the simpler picture now because trust me you will miss it if you dont embrace it now. Your options are very limited when you are young so of course it may feel like you are trapped in a bubble of social unacceptance. But you know who you are and you know you are capable. So these thoughts dont match up to what you know. Its just that little misfit on your shoulder telling you lies to make you feel unable to keep up with what society wants but thats not important in your life is it? Its not supposed to be. There will be plenty of guys who will grow to like a wide range of body types but young boys arent as open minded right now which is why its difficult. You have time so help yourself first and worry about guys later. (Trust me you will rather date a guy when you are older because most are stupid and unattached when young) *More digital hugs*
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