Green_Queen_12

Guys, how do you break up with someone? I don't know what to do, I feel overwhelmed and trapped. It's not her fault, I'm just not ready for a relationship. I do care about her and want to avoid hurting her but I don't know how, I'm scared of ruining our friendship but don't know what else to do. Please help. Almost nobody knows we're dating and the few that do are unable to help. I need out but can't stand the thought of hurting her. I've had like three mental breakdowns today because of this. I'm scared and need help but don't know what to do. I don't want to ruin our friend group or friendship, but feel trapped. Please give me advice, I'm desperate.

hellopeples

Ofc! Let me know how it goes. I wish you luck! 
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Green_Queen_12

@hellopeples thanks a lot for the advice
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hellopeples

@Green_Queen_12 My advice would be to explain it to her. Don't beat around the bush. Just, explain, slowly and gently, that you're not ready for a relationship. She should understand. And if you need someone to talk to after, you can always talk to me. It could be something like, "Hey. I hope you're doing well. I just wanted to talk to you. I've been thinking lately and I don't think I'm ready for a relationship yet." You could apologize but it's not necessary. I wish you luck! <333
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Green_Queen_12

Guys, how do you break up with someone? I don't know what to do, I feel overwhelmed and trapped. It's not her fault, I'm just not ready for a relationship. I do care about her and want to avoid hurting her but I don't know how, I'm scared of ruining our friendship but don't know what else to do. Please help. Almost nobody knows we're dating and the few that do are unable to help. I need out but can't stand the thought of hurting her. I've had like three mental breakdowns today because of this. I'm scared and need help but don't know what to do. I don't want to ruin our friend group or friendship, but feel trapped. Please give me advice, I'm desperate.

hellopeples

Ofc! Let me know how it goes. I wish you luck! 
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Green_Queen_12

@hellopeples thanks a lot for the advice
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hellopeples

@Green_Queen_12 My advice would be to explain it to her. Don't beat around the bush. Just, explain, slowly and gently, that you're not ready for a relationship. She should understand. And if you need someone to talk to after, you can always talk to me. It could be something like, "Hey. I hope you're doing well. I just wanted to talk to you. I've been thinking lately and I don't think I'm ready for a relationship yet." You could apologize but it's not necessary. I wish you luck! <333
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Green_Queen_12

I'm rlly happy rn :)

hellopeples

@Green_Queen_12 congrats! wish I could pull someone but alas, I'm still single. 
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Green_Queen_12

@hellopeples thx, I got a gf lol (:
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Green_Queen_12

Y'all, I need advice. One of my friends told me she likes me a while back and I don't know what to do. I don't know if I would say I have a crush on her, but I honestly want to date her. I don't know how to bring it up again, I don't see her out of school much, but I can text and call her. I don't know what to do or how to bring it up.