@AmbergrisJane Cool! Cantonese dad. Sounds like a lot's happening there. I didn't know there was lantern festival. Lantern festival here is synonymous with Mid-Autumn Festival/Mooncake Festival here. Tong Yun is served at weddings and Winter Solstice.
Yes, QingMing is April 5th this year. It's when my Chinese relatives go visit our deceased family's graves and have a little memorials service. Some people offer food to the deceased and some burn paper houses, servants, paper cars, and loads of paper money for the deceased. They also do this during Hungry Ghost Festival but during HGF, it's more to satisfy the souls who have been released from hell. So most just do it on their porches.
As for Chap Goh Mei, it's on the 15th (last) day of CNY and is the Chinese version of Valentine's Day. The whole throw an orange into the river and hope some guy scoops it up and calls you.
I'm not entirely sure if the traditions are the same everywhere which was why I asked.