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!!ITS A LOVE PROBLEM!! (Part 2)
          
          Let's talk about J. J, he is the same height as me or maybe a bit shorter. But his fashion sense is awesome! He's got car craze and bike craze. I've got that craze too. His eyes when he smile is gorgeous. His hair is so thick, man how I desire to run my hands through his hair. Whenever he comes to church, he never forgets to look at me. And when he looks, I feel sparks all over. He plays football too! There's this one time where he literally TURNED AROUND to look at me! I melted right then and there! Again, we've been talking through eye contacts for a year. We don't know each other, we haven't even spoken a word to each other, but I and him knows each other's name just because we both follow each other on Instagram. And he LIKES EVERY story that I put on Instagram. Like, SMASH man! And, I've only seen one girl in his instagram. But I know, they are besties. I've done my research girls! Overall, I would rate him a 8/10.
          
          What should I do? I am in a dilemma. Today is J's elder brother's birthday. Should I wish him? Should I message J or R through Instagram? I kinda have a crush on both of them. Who do you guys think is a red flag and a green flag? PLEASE HELP ME!!

!!GUYS!! !!I NEED YOUR HELP!!
          
          !!ITS A LOVE PROBLEM!! (Part 1)
          So basically, there's two guys. Let's just call them J and R. They both are in my church. R comes to church regularly whereas J is rarely seen. So, I am following both on Instagram and they're following me back too. 
          
          Let's talk about R. He is taller than me, I am like 165cm. His voice, damn. He's got higher bass in his voice than normal people. So he, always and I say ALWAYS looks at me and this has been going on for a year. We haven't talked, we don't know each other, we only know each other's names because we follow each other on Instagram. His fashion sense, I would say it's basic. Like, he wears what normal people wears. And his friends, he got a lot of girls. It's my first time seeing a boy having these many lady friends. I can't look in his eyes though. We even had a close encounter but I just kept my head down. I know he's looking at me but I can't look at him back. His eyes are gorgeous. But overall, I would rate him 5/10.
          
          

Hey guys! How are you all doing today? I just wanted to ask you'll a quick question ...(⁠・⁠∀⁠・⁠)
          
          • What do you'll want to become when you grow up? (⁠.⁠ ⁠❛⁠ ⁠ᴗ⁠ ⁠❛⁠.⁠)

Here's one random riddle :
          
          1.  What's that thing which goes in and out of your body and gives you pleasure?
          
          (Tell me your answers below please<3)