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I told an Ex-friend abt how I was SA'd when I was younger and guess what they said?
"Well what were you wearing?"
they ACTUALLY said that
excuse me, I was Three to seven when I was SA'd(yes, it happened multiple times through out four years) what the fuck do you THINK I was wearing?! Nothing that should make people want to fuck you! My PARENTS picked out my outfits for gods sake! The only reason it stopped was because that family member(the one who was SA'ing me) moved out of the country with her bf.
If I were to tell someone they wouldn't believe me.
They'd think that I was making it up because I hate that family member or that I remembered it wrong.
The fact she's a girl would make it less believeable because most people believe that women know the dangers of SA and would never SA someone else.
Many men who have been SA'd by a women aren't taken seriously because "You're a guy, you're able to fight back!"
I. Was. Three. to. seven. years. old.
I didn't even know how to properly bathe myself yet!