Hungarian-Shinobi
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Vent your shit post incoming. No judging
Whatever shit you are going through, vent here in the comment section. We won't judge. It can be small or big, whatever you feel and want to vent about.
I'll start: I've had enough of everyone hinting that I am not enough and that I'm a bad mom. I literally try my best for my kids. I am alone with them. It's hard. It makes me ugly cry recently and people are slowly getting to me and I start to believe that I am indeed not a good mom for my children. While there are families out there where the kids get beaten up all the time for no reason, getting yelled at for no reason etc. Yes, sometimes I yell too, but I am patient for long hours before that point comes. Why do people think they know better? Why am I always the bad person? I hate it and I should ignore their comments, but as someone who got bullied all the time in my childhood, I can hardly ignore what people say to me. It hurts no matter what. Why can't people just deal with their own shit and be kind for once?? :(
-Hungarian Shinobi
heyhey12c
@Hungarian-Shinobi I may not know you but I can say for sure that you're a great mum and that you're trying your best. Keep it up! Basically a few years ago my parents were having a rlly big argument. I only knew bc I heard my name and got curious - turns out they were arguing bc of me. I went downstairs and just sat on the sofa and pretended to be busy watching the TV. My mum was ironing the clothes at the time and I guess my dad thought she would hit him with it? So he grabbed it and pulled it away from her. I was sitting nearby and the iron almost burnt my face if I didn't move. They still don't get along but luckily they split up any my dad moved countries but he's still an absolute parasite
OCwriterPerson
@Hungarian-Shinobi bestie I'm sure you're a great mother (you sound better than mine ngl) and other people have no clue what you're going through and should stick their noses somewhere else (preferably in an electrical socket) hecking hecc im jumping at that chance to vent- my dad swears he's not homophobic/transphobic and yet made a VERY transphobic joke. He was signing into a tv thing and it said to choose the gender: Male, Female, Other, or Prefer Not to Say. My brother (doesnt know anything about the pride community) says 'Other? is that like aliens who dont know who they are???' and dad said 'yeah pretty much' and laughed. He told me teh story later and i had to fake laugh and felt horrible. SO that deleted any chance of me coming out to him as a demigirl.
Aileen10-11
@ Hungarian-Shinobi Girl you're a good mom people these days are stupid and talk before they think. If you're kids are happy then your a good mother that doesn't mean that if you yell you're a bad mom no you're educating them that's different unlike in abusive household. You're not a bad person trust me you're trying to be a good mother and that's great even wonderful better than trying to do nothing.
