hi there! just a disclaimer, this isn’t a hate message or whatsoever, i just want to clarify something for you, perhaps to educate you, so that you won’t be mislead, and other people, too!
you’ve been indicating or tagging your books wrong. i’ve read the nsfw parts, and the reader isn’t a top, they’re just the dominant.
but what is the difference of top / bottom and dom / sub?
top and bottom only works on people who are of the same sex ( eg. boy x boy, girl x girl ).
top is the one who’s doing the penetrating, it is them who is inserting something inside the bottom.
bottom is the one who’s being penetrated, it is them who is accepting the thing ( could a strap or a dildo or a real penis ) inserted into them.
it doesn’t mean that just because you are above someone you’re already the top.
again, this may be confusing for you, but i suggest you research more about these kind of things. and again, i’m not hating — i just don’t want this aspect being misunderstood.