I guss I kinda came out to my family. It was very weird. If your intersted in a story, than here you go:
You have to know that I am from germany, that I live in germany and that I speak german with my family. So, during dinner a thought crossed my mind so I started talking about gramma and why girls are seen as neutral from a (german) gramma perspective (basically it's "das Mädchen" so you would choose "es" (english: "it") in the third person singular. Which is kinda strange.
And after that my mom said something like (this is a translation): "So, do you want that it is used when talking about you?" And I said: "No, not really." My mom:" Ok, than she?" Me:"Yeah" my mom: "So, your a girl?" Me:" I think so.." my mom: "Ok, when anything changes, you can talk to me."
And I just nod ,continued eating my meal and asked myself what in the world just happend.
Please keep in mind that my mom sounds way less understanding in this translated text than she actually is.
End of this confusing story, I just needed to write that down. ^^