People who love you deserve to see you at your worst, just like you deserve to see them at theirs. That’s literally what love is about.
Can we stop pretending that someone having an annoying trait is a good reason to not be their friend? You likely have annoying traits too that you wouldn’t want to lose a friendship over. And I’m not saying this because someone unfriended me, I’m saying it because I see it around me constantly. Yall are too hard on each other.
Matthew 7:5 first get rid of the log in your own eye and then you can see clearly to help your friend remove the speck from their eye
Try to better yourself before trying to better others. Once you’re better you’ll be wise enough to know how to help others. And your mindset should always be about helping them grow, not just to change them to fit your life.