Ihatemylifesometimes

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Ihatemylifesometimes

To any new followers, now or in the future: 
          If I haven't followed you yet, it means I'm either working through all the people I'm following to find someone who's not following me or I haven't noticed I've gotten a new follower. I promise I will follow you back, it will just take time! 
          Followers after the time of the post, if you see this and I haven't followed you, comment here so I know that I've got new followers. Thank you!

Ihatemylifesometimes

Hey, if you're following me and I accidentally unfollowed you, tell me please. Thanks in advance.

Ihatemylifesometimes

@OlivertheEmoPrince I checked and it says I'm still following you, thanks for making sure though! I might've unfollowed you some time ago, but then refollowed you, I've done that a couple times so I wouldnt be surprised :)
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OlivertheEmoPrince

@Ihatemylifesometimes I think you unfollowed meh I'm not sure .
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Ihatemylifesometimes

kkay I'm probably stepping into something I shouldnt but I just kinda read more about this: 
          Men's rights. 
          I get, in some parts, how men need this. But all this toxicness!? What!? 
          First of all, men need it for those people who believe men can't cry. That men don't get abused and harassed and dismissed because they're men. 
          That they're discriminated against in certain jobs (male nurses being one example), that they have a certain 'body type' (just like girls, although this is getting better).
          That's where they need men's rights. 
          
          But all this toxicness... wtf!?
          
          Sorry, just ignore this, I just needed to rant about this.
          

Ihatemylifesometimes

So, we all know that people are called 'Homophobic' when they dislike/hate homosexuality. They're called 'transphobic' when they dislike/hate trans people.  
          This is insulting phobias. Phobias are genuine fears. 
          People who hate are not afraid. 
          So, I propose, instead we add odium. Or something of the sort. Odium is Latin for hatred, and that is obviously what I'm talking about. When you hate something so much it affects your mindset and life, you can add odium to it. 
          
          What's your opinion on this idea?

Ihatemylifesometimes

@ElementWolf509 True, but most Phobia's are based off reactions to their fear (shaking, willingness to do anything to get rid of it, etc) and people use fear to their advantage. The hatred homophobes display shows no fear in a phobia related sense, you would find most homophobes reacting either mentally or physically to what they are supposedly afraid of. They would take the same course an abuser might take, only they have little to no fear of being arrested for this, especially physically, as no true government/law-related action has been taken to help with the mental part of the abuse. Sure, some abusers might be afraid, as will some homophobes, but the vast majority of them truly just hate homosexuals & related. If we seperate those who hate and those who fear, we can help those who fear understand that their fear has no basis and then we can deal with those who hate, taking down their bases (because let's face it, if people hate someone/something enough, while it may stem from fear, humans are most likely to react rashly and/or ignore facts and logic.) I'm not trying to undermine this, because yes, it stems from fear, but they would never react on their fear until their anger is dimmed, and most hold enough anger to ignore logic. I hope this helps you understand where I am coming from.
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WhenStarsScatter

@Ihatemylifesometimes The base of hatred is fear. Basic Psycology. :)
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Ihatemylifesometimes

So, if you didnt know this, I'm a very open minded person. Recently, I've created a Sexualities and Genders book that encompasses all the different spectrums and types I could find, no matter if they seemed a little unusual in concept (although if I met someone who was said gender, I'd support them).
          
          I was just wondering if any of you were interested in me posting said book?

Ihatemylifesometimes

@destinycopley13 I understand there will most likely be backlash; that's why I'm mostly telling people (on the book) to dm me; so people trying to figure themselves out don't feel bad/scared to be themselves.
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