Hey besties, its been a while lol.
ok, so im having a bit of a crisis.
teo years ago, i had a sleepover with one of my friends. we fell asleep on my bed watching tiktoks, and when i woke up we were spooning (i was big, they were little), and they were holding onto my arm which was wrapped around their chest while my other one was hugging their waist. and i just stayed there for a while because it was so… warm? idk how to describe it but i remember it clear as day. eventually i got up and they woke up an hour or so later, and they werent aware of it at all and i havent told them since. but a few days ago i had another sleepover with them and this was kindof different but not really. we were on different beds this time, but we both woke up at 2 in the morning. we played a few rounds of chess and put on some lofi music (absolute jam) and just sat and talked on the bed they were on. i was laying on my back next to them and suddenly they rolled over to where they were laying on my chest, it was so warm again and it seemed like they were asleep. at first i was too nervous to move because i thought i would wake them up, but after a while i fell asleep while playing with their hair. i woke up again around 7ish and i got up without waking them up and got dressed because we planned to go get coffee at 8. so i woke them up, told them the time, and i didnt mention what happened at all. and it seemed like they didnt notice?
anyways- now that i gave context, i think i like this person, but i honestly dont know because i have a hard time differentiating platonic from romantic feelings with my friends and stuff. i know theyre bi, which is good because ✨gay✨, but i honestly dont know what to do. should i tell them or not? ahhh idkkkkk please gib advice random people on the internet lol