Jazzy10047
Right now, I feel like something is wrong with me. I’ve been feeling not too fond of my bf’s family. I was about to say I love them, but in reality I have only really liked two, his dad and his younger sister.
At first, I adored going over to his family’s home, and hanging out with his younger sister cause she would hang out with us a lot. But now, I feel indifferent about them. Some stuff has happened between them, myself, and also things that my bf told me about them and what they’ve done to him. And they’ve also talked bad about me before, and I don’t appreciate that.
My mom warned me about them as she was friends with his aunt and known them for years.
It’s mostly the sister who I’m not feeling too fond of. Like, I don’t get excited when she comes hangs with our friend group anymore. I don’t hate her or have anything against her, my feelings have just changed and I don’t feel the same about her anymore.
I don’t know how to express this to my bf. I don’t wanna make it seem like I’m jealous of his family or hate them. What should I do?
I’ve tried to talk to him about some of it, but it still weighs in the back of my mind. When I think I’m over it, something triggers it to come back.
ms_zoya
@Jazzy10047 ik i am a stranger to you but as a third person i think i can give you the most honest advice. All that should matter to you is how your bf is. If he has the strength and intellect to fighf for you the right way against his family (IF) in future, a situation demands his attention. Besides, no family is perfect. Sometimes our own family has such people so you cannot expect from your bf's. Let them be. They are just people related to someone you love. Respect them, care for them but do not expect and attach. They are your responsibility thats it. Treat them like a very important responsibility do not dwell upon what they are and maintain emotional peace.
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