You can't make someone love you and if they don't love you back the relationship will never be that good...
Even if someone could love you, it requires you to keep jumping through all those hoops to hang on to them, it's not just worth it...
You need and deserve someone who really loves you for who you are, not for who you're pretending or trying to be
So as soon as you realize you're with someone who doesn't love you, you need to be really brave and end the relationship before they do...
You feel bad about losing them, but great for holding on to your pride,and one day you look back and realize how courageous and right your decision was..
Maybe you try to change, to become the person they really want