"I think of people as books. When you pick up a book, sometimes you've heard good things, sometimes you've heard bad, and sometimes you know nothing at all.
But either way, as you slowly get through the book,  you will get to know more about it. And either you will like it or dislike it. Very few books you will feel especially strong emotions for, like love or hate. 
If you hate it, you will probably put it down halfway and never really know the full story. If you love it, you will probably read it again and again, always hoping to find something you missed."