I'm going to say this once and once only. Self-harming is someone causing PAIN to themselves because something is wrong in their life and they don't have the proper means to deal with it in a healthy way, whether that be because they never learned how to deal with their problems, or because no one was there for them, etc. It is extremely lonely, painful, and hard to go through that kind of life, and treating it like a fashion statement is something I will not forgive. Calling self-harming "beautiful" is ignorant and inconsiderate to the people actually dealing with it, and if you.'te going to take interest in them, how about showing them some love instead of acting like they're a museum exhibit? If you're someone who calls self harming, emotional disorders, and depression, "beautiful," you may unfollow me now, because you have no place calling yourself a fan, friend, or associate of mine.