You can se what kinds of books I like in my readinglists. (And I only put the best in the lists, unless its tbr's... then I dont yet know if they are good)
If you enjoy similar books you may send me sugestions.

Fave thropes: 
He falls first, and he falls harder.

genderbender aka FL in disguise. (Favorite moment: when the ML questions if he himself is gay)

Transmigration or/and otome anything. Strong womeen faceslapping those whom did them wrong. Meeting their match in a possesive lovely husband along the way. FL learns to love and trust again, prehaps under doubt and a bit reluctantly.

Worldjumping taskers, to buizzy for love, yet love come to them all in the form of (yes you guessed it) an possessive lovely husband to be.
 
Aliens are real and they know human culture or tools. And yes... they are possesive, loyal and lovely husbands to be.

Not having a ML in otome themed novels 


I try to only read original works

I dont confuse fiction and reality. A funn thrope might not be a green flag irl. Keep that in mind.