"People say they won't judge but they do. People say they won't expect but they do. And people say they won't hope but they do, don't they?
Because judging other people is a way to assure yourself that you aren't the only one with flaws and troubles in life. Expecting things from people disappoints us, but when some people surpass  those expectations we know they are bound to stick by our side through thick and thin. And in the end hope is the only thing that makes us push through the horrors of the past and the uncertainty of the future.
And that is why judging people isn't always bad. It is only wrong when you don't actually know what the other person is going through and you make false assumptions. Expecting things isn't wrong either until you expect things from a person you wouldn't expect of yourself. And hope is never a bad thing because it is the fuel to the vehicle  that is our life."
-Carolena Williams. 'Good, Better, Best.'