I don't really think that you have done the correct thing in insulting someone like that....
I know it's sometimes annoying that someone won't update and I really hate it when the last update was this long ago... but I think you overdid it a little bit. I mean, it could be a nice conversation and I'm not to judge you or EtherNatsuDragneel, but it was really a little bit too far. Maybe she started it, I don't know. This is only my opinion...