K1STUN3

Hey guys i want to thank everyone who has followed me+supported me+reached out to talk to me and i hope y’all are doing alright and staying safe and sane (im not sure if i am lol) considering the state of the world right now
          	
          	love you guys!

K1STUN3

Hey guys i want to thank everyone who has followed me+supported me+reached out to talk to me and i hope y’all are doing alright and staying safe and sane (im not sure if i am lol) considering the state of the world right now
          
          love you guys!

K1STUN3

Hey so I kinda need advice to anyone who cares to give it and if you want to ignore this that’s fine with me, I just need help on what to do. So there’s this guy that I’ve liked for over a year and we have a special club with 3 other people and we just spend a lot of time outside of school together. But one of my friends that I only met last year(me and the guy have known each other for 4 years and both met her around the same time) likes him too. I haven’t told her that I like him, and she knows him and I are close friends, so she asks me to do stuff for her and tell her what he does. And I don’t want to be a bad friend and be with him or whatever but he doesn’t really seem like he likes her, and it seems that he likes me. 
          
          I could just be being selfish but I don’t know...so if you guys could tell me what I should do that would help a lot. Or just what you think about the situation. Thanks you to anyone who read this thing, I’m sorry I just have no idea what to do right now. 

K1STUN3

Thanks your two, that’s helps me a lot, young have no idea. I don’t trust myself to make a good decision if my life depended on it. 
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PiperThorn

@Kittenheart2000 If you like him tell him the worst that happens is that he just wants to be friends also don't play the third wheel if she likes him why hasn't she asked him out? Guys sometimes don't notice when a girl likes them so take the wheel and say something. You don't have to but that's what I would do, hope that helps. 
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HannahD1999

@Kittenheart2000 
            Hey. I've been in a similar situation before with a good friend of mine a couple years ago.
            
            I found that it was best to tell my friend so that we were on the same page and so we could have a better idea on how to handle the situation. Since we both liked the same guy and both knew about our feelings toward him it made it easier to decide on what to do after that. 
            
            I hope that helps. It's just better to be on the same page with your friend if you like the same person is all I'm saying. And if she's a good friend then chances are that she will listen to what you have to say. That way when both of you feel comfortable with it you can ask the guy to pick which one of you he likes. You don't have to tell your friend that you think he like you though.  That may be a bit much. 
            
            But you should definitely talk to her. Like I said if she's a good friend then she should be understanding.  And be willing to work it put with you and not fight over it.
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